David Ives' Sure Thing

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On the surface David Ives’ “Sure Thing” is a play about two strangers who meet, fall in love and live happily ever after. When analyzed in more depth, the play is actually about the struggle that exists between one’s desire to be an individual and the need to conform, to a certain degree, in order to be part of a couple. The play exposes and discusses the tension that exists between the value of being an individual and value associated with being in love. Love holds the promise that you will always having someone there for you and that you will always have someone to share everything with. However, to realize this love one has to make sacrifices in the process and potentially change who they are.
At the beginning of the play Betty and Bill are in conflict regarding their individuality. As their conflict plays out, Ives demonstrates how individuality can at times be detrimental to the formation of a sound relationship. Indeed, the play demonstrates that individuality can impede one’s ability to be congruent in a couple. Ives uses the bell which chimes every time that Bill or Betty makes a comment or shares an interest that was not well received by the other, to demonstrate this fact. One example is Bill's love of sports and his statement: “I'm a Mets fan, myself,” (643,49). One has a sense that Bill’s love of sports is a bit extreme and thus is not received well by Betty. The point the author makes is that having such passion for sport, or any individual interest for that matter, could take away from the amount of time he has to focus on the relationship. Moreover, Betty does not seem to share his passion thus making it hard for her to engage in conversation on the subject.
Interestingly, individuality is also present when both...

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...ed at a happy ending? In order to become part of a happy couple both Betty and Bill had to give up a part of who they were as individuals in order to find love. This relates to the dramatic element of the stage being a metaphor for life. Betty and Bill are taking on characters that are only mirror images of who they really are, fooling the other completely.
Ultimately Ive's “Sure Thing” demonstrates the conflict between individuality and the congruency of relationships. On the broad level it demonstrates how individuality, on all levels, may be in conflict when two people coming together. However, it also reveals how sacrificing a measure of individuality can enable conformity and lead to love and companionship. In short, the play reveals that there is a natural interplay or balance between individuality and conformity in the relationship building process.

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