Dating Vs Texting Essay

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Do you have to learn how to flirt with a girl over text in order to win her over? The short answer is yes. Only if you really want to win her over though. Texting is a part of dating, and because the words she reads can either turn her off or turn her on, you want to make sure that you are flirting in the right way. The better your flirting skills through text are, the more likely you are to win her over and get to see her in person. Also, if you have a lot of game in person with a girl, but suck at texting, then you may confuse a girl. She may be drawn to you in person but repelled by you through text, and you can take away from the positive impressions you have made with her. Eventually that could cause her to lose interest. Lastly, …show more content…

But, if you add a simple, "I'm looking forward to seeing you again," then you are making it clear that your message is positive. If you are ever in doubt, remember that you can also make it clear through emoticons. While they can be cheesy if you use them too much, they can help a girl read your tone and expression behind the words, and it can help you get your message across much more clearly. 4. Don't Try To Correct Yourself After A Questionable Text Own your texts. Stand behind them. If you start to overthink it, you may send a follow up text that makes things really bad. For instance, if you tell a girl how hot she is through text and then decide that it is too forward or too pushy, you may be tempted to send another message that makes you sound better. Don't! She may love the text, even if she doesn't respond to you right away. If you text something else, such as an explanation as to why you would send such a 'weird message', then you are doing damage because she will start to get confused about what you really mean. Don't confuse a girl. Be yourself, flirt, and don't try to correct what you are

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