Dannie Abse's End of Ash on a Young Man's Sleeve
Dannie Abse ended this brilliant story in a simple and sombre manner.
Within this ending there are many areas of contrast to reflect upon,
each portrayed to be seemingly meaningless yet each embodied with a
deep and symbolic message.
The first area that is to be assessed is the tone that Dannie Abse
decides to use in this ending. Rather than adopting the same tone
throughout this final chapter, it changes gradually yet quite
significantly from the start to finish. To begin with, we can see that
his tone is casual and typical of an adolescent character. Dannie has
reached a crucial stage in his life where he has no choice but to
acknowledge the change that awaits him. He is no longer the child who
he used to be - no longer '10 years high' (p11) but the 'emperor of
his 18 years… king of the tall trees… and big boss of the grass'. By
the final lines of the ending, the tone has become far more solemn and
intense.
At the opening of his ending, Abse possesses a casual and almost
suppressed tone; and he acts as if the events that have passed by are
no big deal. He's reached the point where he is now independent and
can no longer be as reliant on his parents as he once was. Even in
random streams of semi-consciousness he resents what they say and
wishes to continue his life on his own. Yet somehow, despite his
resentfulness on the surface, deep down he still longs for the loving
nagging of his parents:
"I didn't go home… my parents would be saying the same things all over
again."
"I sat on a wooden bench… thought for a moment what my mother would
have said."
Th...
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... hands, cold red hands sinking
in the air… waving goodbye, to the branches that, already in our war
weather ached with their absence."
The ending has not only strongly reiterated Dannie's significant
events of the past but also emphasised just how much he has changed
since the beginning of the book. Dannie's more subtle form of speech
and enrichment of his poetic style is an epitome of his development.
This episode of his 18th birthday paints the final picture of his
childhood and concludes the book in a very successful manner.
This is a terrific ending to a very unique book that has managed to
attain the ideal portrayal of adolescence and infancy rounded off in a
very intense but open-ended manner. I really don't think even the
writer himself could have ended the story in a better manner than the
way he did.
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was an impatient ruler and wouldn’t hesitate to show his power. He was in great physical state
see that he has bit of selfish characteristic. He blames on his parents that not
...g age. “Young children idolize their parents and draw strength from closeness to them.” (Nichols, 190). As soon as my friend and his sister were near to their father, they felt safe, and things returned to normal.
a sense of self-worth. He also learns to live his own life, not that of his
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