Foreclosure Crisis Essay

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The Crisis A crisis that I experienced was a secondary crisis that happened a year ago when my best friend’s husband passed away from clear cell sarcoma cancer. My best friend, Angela, was married to her husband, Mike, for five years before the cancer finally took him. Angela and Mike have two beautiful little boys together, both who were under the age of five when he passed away at only thirty. This was a crisis because it drastically changed my life, my family’s life, and my friend’s life. Mike was diagnosed with cancer back in 2005. There is no specific treatment for clear cell sarcoma, so the only course of action was to amputate body parts that had grown tumors. After battling with this disease, losing a foot, lobes in his lungs, …show more content…

Two month before Mike passed away, Angela was not able to give him the proper care needed, so he was placed in a retirement home under hospice. This was the most beneficial resource for everyone. It allowed us to be able to get a break from the constant care of Mike, and allowed us to get some rest while hospice took things into their hands. The retirement home offered personal counseling for Angela and her family, and gave resources on funeral cost and ideas. Another great resource that was helpful for me was the children’s day care. The owner of the day care had lost her son to clear cell sarcoma. She understood the situation, and was very empathic towards the situation. She was able to help the boys understand what was going on better, was able to work with me on pick up times for the boys, and also helped a great deal with providing food for Angela’s family. I honestly do not know how we would have made it through this terrible time without the nurses from the retirement home, and the owner of the day care. Once Mike passed, the retirement home was able to give contacts for low cost grief and family counseling to Angela, myself, and our …show more content…

I never dealt with losing a friend, or grief before, and at times I thought I was under reacting and over reacting to the situation. The nurses at the home constantly reinforced the idea that everyone experiences grief differently, and that my reactions to it were completely normal. My mother, on the other hand, was probably the most influential person during this crisis. She was constantly there for me, whether it be to hold my while I cried, to lend a listening ear as I screamed, to help watch Angela’s children while I slept, or to make sure I was eating and bathing daily. I believe her motherly instincts kicked in, as she also had to deal with her child experiencing all these different things for the first time. I do not know how I would have coped with the situation without having such a strong and supportive system in my

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