“A Good Man is Hard to Find” by Flannery O’Connor is a story about a family vacation that goes horribly wrong. Against the grandmother’s wishes, the family decides to go to Florida. Bailey, his wife, June Star, John Wesley, the baby, and the cat pile into the car along with the grandmother for a long drive. Eventually, the family takes a detour to see an old plantation, but they get in a wreck in the middle of the woods. An escaped criminal known as “The Misfit” and his accomplices find the family, and the grandmother recognizes him. He then has his assistants kill the entire family while he murders the grandmother last. While no one in this story is perfect, the grandmother is the reason that the family’s problems became fatal. Throughout …show more content…
She believes that she knows what is best for everyone; most of this attitude comes from the fact that she is not accustomed to being a subordinate family member. At the beginning of the trip, she says, “In my time . . . children were more respectful of . . . their parents” (O’Connor 262). She is a native of the Old South where the women were treated as royalty. She also gathers most of her inspiration from her Christian foundations. During the encounter with The Misfit, she tells him to “pray” (271), that “Jesus would help you” (270), and that “You’re one of my own children!” (272). According to the grandmother, her stature and faith should save her. Armond Boudreaux explains that “she believes in the power of her dress and Southern manners to prove her dignity and superiority” and has a “hollow faith in Jesus—whom she invokes only to save her life” (Boudreaux 151). Self-preservation becomes her focus because she is selfish; all she wants is for something to save her, whether it be the aristocratic life, emotional appeal, or divine intervention. She has always been able to talk her way to win an argument. Once no one will obey her, she realizes that her faith is not strong enough, so she frantically searches for anything strong enough to save her. Since she never had to worry in life, she never understood the need for a true faith. These circumstances also reveal characteristics about The Misfit’s
In Flannery O’Conner’s, “A Good Man is Hard to Find” the story begins with the family going on a road trip to Florida. The Grandmother who is very critical, selfish, judgmental, forgetful, and dishonest and almost enjoys manipulating others to get her way. The Grandmother holds herself in very high regard and
Misfit clearly understood the difference between good and bad unlike the grandmother but there philosophical positions, his by determination and hers by accident are not so far apart. Hence the statement “Why you are one of my babies” (135) indeed he is one of her babies for her lack of values is his lack as well. These two faces are so close like a mirror images. The Misfit can be said to be completely evolved from the
Manipulation has been her go to tool for her entire life. She lies and tells The Misfit “I know you're a good man. You don't look a bit like you have common blood. I know you must come from nice people!” Though she doesn’t believe a word of this. Then the Grandmother’s family is taken into the woods and shot. Hysteria has taken over her and she pleads for her own life. She doesn’t beg for her family. She tries to manipulate The Misfit. “’Listen,’ she said, ‘you shouldn't call yourself the Misfit because I know you're a good man at heart. I can just look at you and tell.’” The Misfit, unlike the Grandmother knows exactly who he is. He is a bad man. He embraces this life and accepts who he is. He tells the Grandmother ”I ain't a good man… but I ain't the worst in the world neither.” The Misfit has lost all his humanity and compassion. He realizes this about
Works Cited Bandy, Stephen C. "One of my babies": The Misfit and the Grandmother in Flannery O'Connor's short story 'A Good Man Is Hard to Find'. Studies in Short Fiction; Winter 1996, v33, n1, p107(11). O’Connor, Flannery. The Complete Story of the. Farrar, Straus, and Giroux.
Everyone is faced with decisions and choices in life, and sometimes they are combined with impelling and inevitable consequences. Flannery O'Connor’s religiously symbolic short story "A Good Man is Hard to Find" portrays a family of unappreciative adults and children traveling to Florida for a vacation. While traveling the family has an unfortunate accident and encounter a wanted and deadly criminal named The Misfit. As they are forced to face their own destruction, the grandmother attempts to find some mercy in the misfit to prevent her own death and subsequent Judgment. O’Conner in “A Good Man Is Hard To Find”, skillfully uses noticeable foreshadowing, elaborate symbolism, and dramatic irony to portray the message that people sometimes experience
He’s the most dangerous criminal, and the Grandmother knows that. It seems she wants to buy herself time by having a conversation with The Misfit. The Misfit seems to be having a nice conversation because he was talking about his life and the meaning behind his name. He explains in their conversation why he calls himself “The Misfit”, according to the story, “I can’t make what all I done wrong fit what all I gone through in punishment.”. So, he named himself The Misfit, because of the wrong things he had done in the past. He talked about how his dad had something to do with him being what he is. “My daddy said I was a different breed of dog from my brothers and sisters.” It seems that his father knew he was different in a bad way and he expresses it with his son The Misfit. For him, murdering people is only to give them a punishment they deserved, but killing the Grandmother is justified as the ultimate punishment for her sins of manipulation and deviousness. According to the Article from Bethea, “like Satan, The Misfit is an anti-Christ. Jesus loved children, whereas children make the anti-Christ Misfit ‘nervous’’. The Misfit has already directed the execution of the Grandmother's entire family, and it must be obvious to all, including reader and Grandmother, that she is the next to die. But she struggles on. Grasping at any appeal, and hardly aware of what she is saying, the
Just some of the last pleading words of the grandmother in the story, “A Good Man is Hard to Find” by Flannery O’Connor. In the story, the author uses colloquialism, point-of-view, foreshadowing, and irony, as well as other rhetorical devices, to portray the satire of southern beliefs and religion throughout the entire piece.
“A Good man is hard to find,” is about a family who decide to go on a trip to Florida. The story revolves around a self absorbed grandmother who loves to talk about how everything used to be back in her day and takes the time to dress herself so that “In case of an accident, anyone seeing her dead on the highway would know at once that she was a lady (358).” She sneaks the family cat with her despite her son’s disapproval of bringing the creature along violating her boundaries to how a lady would act. The family encounters an accident along the way and happens to come across ‘The Misfit,’ a runaway criminal. Using ‘The Misfit’ as a tool, O’ Connor sends a message to her readers of how hypocritical a person can be when it comes to belief.
The grandmother is the central character in the story "A good man is hard to find," by Flannery O'Connor. The grandmother is a manipulative, deceitful, and self-serving woman who lives in the past. She doesn't value her life as it is, but glorifies what it was like long ago when she saw life through rose-colored glasses. She is pre-scented by O'Connor as being a prim and proper lady dressed in a suit, hat, and white cotton gloves. This woman will do whatever it takes to get what she wants and she doesn't let anyone else's feelings stand in her way. She tries to justify her demands by convincing herself and her family that her way is not only the best way, but the only way. The grandmother is determined to change her family's vacation destination as she tries to manipulate her son into going to Tennessee instead of Florida. The grandmother says that "she couldn't answer to her conscience if she took the children in a direction where there was a convict on the loose." The children, they tell her "stay at home if you don't want to go." The grandmother then decides that she will have to go along after all, but she is already working on her own agenda. The grandmother is very deceitful, and she manages to sneak the cat in the car with her. She decides that she would like to visit an old plantation and begins her pursuit of convincing Bailey to agree to it. She describes the old house for the children adding mysterious details to pique their curiosity. "There was a secret panel in this house," she states cunningly knowing it is a lie. The grandmother always stretches the truth as much as possible. She not only lies to her family, but to herself as well. The grandmother doesn't live in the present, but in the past. She dresses in a suit to go on vacation. She states, "in case of an accident, anyone seeing her dead on the highway would know at once that she was a lady." She constantly tries to tell everyone what they should or should not do. She informs the children that they do not have good manners and that "children were more respectful of their native states and their parents and everything else." when she was a child.
Her worship of God, therefore, becomes a representative power for her. She is empowered by the belief that she can at least count on God, if nothing else. When she is escaping from the plantation she is against all odds, but she says that “And den de Good Lawd seen to it dat Ah wasn’t taken.
...person. When these two counterexamples are dissected further, many flaws begin to surface and can be easily viewed differently. In the case of “Bailey Boy”, it can be observed as another sly tactic used to gain more sympathy towards the grandmother. Even at the end when it looked like she was showing compassion towards the Misfit, it can be perceived as her last desperate attempt to save her own life. This was highly plausible since in the beginning of the paragraph, the grandmother noticed that the Misfit had a sensitive spot towards religion, which she could have used against him in order to set herself free. However, her attempt to “comfort” the criminal backfired and led her to her death. These theories can all be debated depending on your outlook of the story, which would really decide whether the grandmother was being sincere or frolicking with the devil.
The Misfit; is the epitome of the Godless man in a Godless society. He is a killer who is also raised without spirituality as the old woman's children. He is the representative of evil.
“A Good Man Is Hard To Find” by Flannery O’Connor explores the complexity of human nature. The unnamed grandmother is a perfect example of how contradictory a person’s beliefs and standards can be. She is indirectly manipulative, yet she holds herself to a higher, purer standard than the other characters. Not to mention, the grandmother is not as she first appear, and she is stuck on the views of the past and how they apply to her as a lady, whether the views are correct or not.
When the author wrote “ Bailey was the son she lived with, her only boy” (356). From this line you can see how much dependence women had on men in the story for their well-being. The grandmother is living with Bailey, who you can tell from the line is not the only child she has, but the only boy she has, showing that she can’t live with her daughters. It has to be her son because of women’s dependency on men, as well as trying to convince her children to not go to Florida due to her conscience not letting her be able to live with it even if they come back unharmed. This is showing her being extremely emotional as a woman “should be” in the
In Flannery O 'Connor 's short story, A Good Man is Hard to Find, the theme of good vs. evil unravels throughout the series of tragic events. The Grandmother’s epiphany introduces the idea of morality and the validity is left to the interpretation of the reader. By questioning the characteristics of right and wrong, morality and religion become subjective to personal reality and the idea of what makes individuals character good or bad becomes less defined.