Compare And Contrast My Father

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I have been asked what my father is like numerous times throughout my life. Unfortunately, clarity on whether they are referring to my father or my dad is needed to answer that question. Although both have played tremendous roles in whom I have become in life, they have significant differences. My father, the man who helped my mother conceive me, has been non-existent in my life for quite some time now. My dad, the first man I have ever loved, has been in my life since I was two; he is the only dad I have ever known. Despite the fact that we do not share the same DNA, he never treated me different from my siblings that do. His unconditional love, support, and family values are what classify him as dad. Many automatically believe that if a man is a father he is a dad. However, I believe anyone can be a father, but it takes unique characteristics to be a dad. …show more content…

A dad actively participates and remains present in their children’s lives; helping them grow, raising them, and nurturing them while attending plays and basketball games. A father is more of an organic term for a reproductive assistant. They contribute the necessary components to create a child, and after that, their role and obligation to the child cease. Father’s don’t need to be present to provide their biological contribution or have a child. Therein lies the difference between a dad and father. Of course, this differentiation is my own, nonetheless I am sure single mothers who recognize the difference between the two and would agree with me. They experience firsthand how the differences between being a dad and father affect their children’s

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