Lauryn's Song 'Used To Love Him And I Used To Love Him'

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Love was the one thing Lauryn was after since she was a little girl. She was fascinated with the idea of being married and settling with someone. What she did not expect was the hunt for love being so hurtful, heartbreaking, and draining. After many failed relationships, and many years of emotional abuse, she realized that all she really needed is herself and not someone else’s love and approval. With her newfound knowledge, Lauryn tries to not only educate the children, but people who are having a tough time trying to escape their stressful and abusive relationships as well. Her songs “Lost Ones,” “Ex-Factor,” “When It Hurts So Bad,” “I Used To Love Him,” “Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You,” and “Tell Him (Live)” speak about her past relationships, …show more content…

She describes how it affected her and how he was a negligent lover. She goes so in depth with her words and I felt just as hurt as she did when I heard the song. This can be interpreted as a message to all women and men who feel as though they are not being treated fairly in their relationships. If your significant other can drop you in a heartbeat, then they do not deserve your love. “Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You” is a remake of a song by Frankie Valli and the 4 seasons, but it ties in with the album so well. She speaks of a man that did her wrong, but she cannot seem to stop admiring him. Something a lot of people can relate to. There is nothing wrong with admiring from afar, but letting that same person that hurt you back into your life is a different story. Essentially this is just a playful song, and she is not encouraging people to start loving the abuser all over again. The final song is called “Tell Him (Live),” to wrap up the album she talks to everyone that did her wrong. She says despite all that they have done, she does not regret one thing in her life and she is happy with the person she is

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