A Second Look at First Impressions

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A Second Look at First Impressions You never get a second chance to make a first impression. This is a common mantra from parents, professional coaches, and other mentors. First impressions are formed based upon analysis of the person’s behaviors and traits, often using our own values and beliefs as a gauge. Once formed, first impressions may be difficult to change. My first impressions of John painted him in a specific light. Upon reversal and reflection I was challenged to look beyond my initial findings and seek a deeper understanding. The same situations may happen in the relationship between leaders and followers. What if we took the time to take a second look at our first impression? How can we revise someone else’s first impression of us? In order to successfully motivate their followers, leaders must be cautious of first impressions and their impact on determining the best approach. Forming First Impressions First impressions are created through global impression. Although different labels may be used, two common categories of first impressions are competency and morality (Pagliaro, Brambilla, Sacchi, D'Angelo, & Ellemers, 2013). Competency relates to how well a person significantly executes and can be a symbol of dominance. Morality refers to how well a person connects and can be characterized as safety. Competency and morality impressions are not created equal (Pagliaro et al., 2013). It is often the case a first impression is made leaning upon morality traits than competency. It seems first impressions are based more so upon emotional connectedness than rational analysis. This is important to realize as we each create and form first impressions with partners, colleagues, leaders, and followers. Feeling safe and warm is ... ... middle of paper ... ...es their existence, the leader can customize motivators to drive success. Conclusion First impressions are inevitable and made disproportionally upon an individual’s value-assessment. Labels are another’s impression of the situation and should not be used to form an impression. Impressions can be changed if one is willing to seek truth from multiple angles to form an inclusive view of humanity. Leaders who continue to push beyond initial impressions of followers will find new opportunities to understand, connect, and motivate. References Clark, D.R. (2014). Leadership & Human Behavior. Retrieved from http://www.nwlink.com/~donclark/leader/leadhb.html. Pagliaro, S., Brambilla, M., Sacchi, S., D'Angelo, M., & Ellemers, N. (2013). Initial Impressions Determine Behaviours: Morality Predicts the Willingness to Help Newcomers. Journal Of Business Ethics, 117(1), 37-44.

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