A Non-Verbal Communication Rules: Break A Nonverbal Rule

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Break a Nonverbal Rule The non-verbal communication rule that I chose to break was to communicate with my husband and my grandson while I kept my eyes completely closed throughout a period of time of approximately thirty minutes. My husband and grandson were in the kitchen having a conversation and I walked in and stood slightly in front of my husband and next to my grandson with my eyes shut. Then the questions began: Why are your eyes closed? Do you have a headache? You just don’t want to look at us? What are you doing? I could not see their faces and reactions; I was merely listening to their tone of voice and changes in their speech. I could also feel their proximity, and the shifting of their bodies. All of these things are examples of …show more content…

Woods states that nonverbal patterns reflect specific cultures and nonverbal behavior is not instinctive but learned in the process of socialization (p. 124). Our culture in Puerto Rico, children are considered to be disrespectful if they make eye contact when spoken to by an adult; especially when being reprimanded. Nevertheless, closing one’s eyes completely is a sign of unreserved disrespect when someone is speaking to …show more content…

At first they thought I had a headache and I could sense their concern. After a few more minutes my husband began asking questions as well as my grandson, to which I stated I was fine just wanted to listen. Then after additional time elapsed they began joking around; then my husband got a little annoyed, until I finally opened my eyes and advised him I was breaking a non-verbal rule; I explained to him how we use varied-intrinsic ways to communicate in every aspect of our lives. I asked my husband how it felt to talk to me with my eyes closed. He stated: “My first thought was that you had a headache, and then I was convinced you were playing a practical joke on us, but when I saw you were not opening your eyes purposely, I just got

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