Difficulties In The Love Song Of J Alfred Prufrock

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I.T.S Eliot’s poem, “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock,” is about the balding, middle- aged Prufrock who forces himself to attend a party in order to find a woman to love. Although there are many women at the party who engage Prufrock’s attention with their “perfume” and their “arms that are braceleted and white and bare,” Prufrock can never bring himself to approach any of them. Unfortunately, he ends up leaving the party empty handed (lines 63, 65). Prufrock has several problems that stop him from success in the pursuit of love: low self-esteem, poor social skills, and fear of rejection.
BP 1 = low self-esteem. Since Prufrock doesn’t believe in himself it doest matter if a female gives Prufrock the opportunity or not because …show more content…

There are numerous ways to fix this problem when your self-esteem is so low. For example the teachers doctors two that can help. But age is not the problem because women like older men …show more content…

These personal problems are very severe problems that take a lot of time and effort to correct but this can be done. Unfortunately, Prufrock does not want to invest either the time or the effort to make this possible. Prufrock will never put on his morning coat or venture out again. His future may be like that of those “lonely men in shirt sleeves leaning out of windows” that Prufrock passed earlier on the way to the party. Those men have given up on life and hope, and it appears that perhaps Prufrock has given up on these things, as well. Eliot, T. S. The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock. The Conscious reader. E.d. Caroline Shrodes 7th ed. Boston: Allyn and Bacon,

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