Analysis: We Don 'T Sleep Around Like White Girls Do'

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My interviewee is classified as a second-generation female immigrant, meaning that she is a US born child with immigrant parents (Feliciano, 01/04/16). To keep her identity confidential, I will use a pseudonym for my respondent; in this essay, she will be referred to as Monica. This paper will discuss and analyze Monica’ struggles with language, her experience of assimilation, what drives her educational success, and how does she see herself in terms of identity. Monica’s parents immigrated illegally to the United States in the 1990s. After having Monica in California, they went back to Mexico, so the family could meet her. Her family resided in Guerrero, Mexico until her father lost his job and he was obligated to immigrate to the United …show more content…

Throughout her education, her parents have always supported her. Unlike the Filipina American youth, in the article, “We Don’t’ Sleep Around Like White Girls Do,” who have limited freedom and higher expectations, Monica tells me that she is so grateful for her parents because they give her the freedom to do whatever she wants. She wants to do immigration law, not because her parents persuaded her, in fact, they tell her that if that is not what she want to do, then she should not do it. Her parents also approved for her to attend University of California, Irvine. Since she has lived in a little town almost all her life, she wanted to go far, explore, and experience a different environment, and UCI happened to be the farthest college from her home. Monica highlights that she wants to get her parents out their current situation. She pursues a higher education to receive a degree because that is the only thing she can do to help her parents. Monica’s parents are field workers. When I asked her why did she think she went as far as she did in school, she responds, “I always saw the struggle with my parents…I know what is like to live in Mexico…the hardships of coming here and the sacrifices my parents did for me.” Even though Monica was little when she lived in Mexico, she noticed the economic hardships her family has faced. Therefore, she feels the responsibility to pursue a higher education and provide her parents a better life. Monica demonstrates an example of a dual frame of reference because her motivation to improve is due to her experiences living in Mexico. When I asked her, if she ever wanted to go back to Mexico, she replied, “I would do it but to do something for the community…it bothers me how here [we are constantly upgrading] and you go over there and everything is the same.” According to Professor Feliciano, the concept of dual frame of reference is based on the individual’s

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