Myers-Briggs Personality Analysis

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After taking the Myers-Briggs personality test; Cole got ESTJ, and I got ENFJ. According to the notes, since we both got Extrovert it would mean that we are not compatible in that section. However, our matching 6:4 score can tell otherwise. Unlike how I see him, he feels weary when he is forced to be social and is actually very focused. With the presence of his friends, his energetic side comes out and he starts talking a lot. I’ve known him for years and he can definitely talk so much to the point that he would interrupt other people in the room. Alike to Cole, I also feel obligated to be social sometimes. At the same time, I seek company from not just my friends, but other people in the room. I tend to be the first one to initiate a conversation …show more content…

Cole is a thinker (17:3) while I’m a Feeler (16:4), complete opposites. When making decisions, he weighs the pros and cons and how it can affect him negatively and positively. I had Social Studies with him in middle school and he was really thick-skinned and confidently led every single class debates (Male/Female Brain). I would say he still likes debating now. Contradicting him, I try to avoid conflicts such as debating and anything that can hurt other people’s feelings. Also, contrasting his thick-skinned character, I am sensitive and can get affected emotionally easily (Male/Female Brain). Cole has some “cool” behaviors due to his Thinker traits that can make him hurt people easily without knowing. Contrarily, even though my logic is short, I have enough “caring” in me to save a whole country if I could. We balance each other by me making Cole consider more, and Cole making me be more rational. Basically, if I have too many feelings and no thinker traits, I might be persuaded into letting out a person that did something severely wrong in the world. At the same time, if Cole continues acting the way he does and not respecting others, he might get something dangerously done on him. Or perhaps I’m imagining too much with my Intuitive traits… Lets hope nothing dangerous happen to either of us in the future

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