Interpersonal Communication In Mean Girls

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The stereotypical girls in highschool can either be very negative or positive when it comes to engaging with interpersonal communications. To display various examples of interpersonal relationships, there is a movie called Mean Girls. The movie demonstrates how a group of girls in a public high school survive their way through life with gossip as one of their sources of communication. The main characters involved in this movie are Cady Heron, Regina George, Gretchen Wieners, and Karen Smith. These girls are known as, “The Plastics,” the most popular girls in the school. However, Cady was not one of them, she only hung out with them to sabotage them because they would bully Janis Ian, the first friend Cady made since she moved to that school. …show more content…

Cady has always been homeschooled, so she did not really know what it was like to communicate with others and make friends. She thought that her actions are what she should be doing in order to make friends. As Cady gets closer to The Plastics, she starts to develop feelings for Regina’s ex-boyfriend, Aaron Samuels. Later on in the movie Cady has to make a choice whether she wants to be officially part of the group or to continue sabotaging it. Eventually she decides to be part of the group, which disappoints Janis; since Cady basically betrayed her. Cady starts developing into a whole new person; she became a Plastic. Cady illustrates different types of interpersonal communication as she tries to make everything right again in her life. Throughout this movie, the girls show how their relationships consists of: social exchange theory, communication privacy management theory, unproductive conflict, and productive …show more content…

When Regina found out that Cady had a crush on Aaron she immediately went to go tell him. Regina told Cady that she was okay with Cady liking Aaron because he was an ex, but little did she know that Regina was untrustworthy. Regina told Aaron, “Well be careful because she has a huge crush on you (Waters 2004, 27:24).” Cady thought that Regina would never tell anyone her secret since she was part of The Plastics. This shows how the boundary turbulence concept comes into play, “a readjustment of your need for privacy against your need for self-disclosure and connection (Real Communication, 201).” However, this does not stop Cady from liking Aaron. Cady decides to disclose more information about herself to Aaron, “I pretended to be bad at math so that you’d help me (Waters 2004, 59:36).” Cady decides to tell Aaron this information about herself because she feels that they have a close relationship and disclosing this information would make them become more intimate with each

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