The Socialization of Girls

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Socialization is the processes in which we develop an awareness of social norms and values. It also allows us to achieve a distinct sense of who we are as a person. The socialization processes are particularly noteworthy during infancy and childhood, they continue throughout life. No one is immune from the reactions of others around them. The reactions of others influence and modify ones behavior at all times during ones life cycle. As a child grows, they develop in many ways. They become taller and heavier. They also mentally become capable of working out math problems and memorizing poems. Each parent socializes their child into their own patterns and instills their own values thus beginning the socialization cycle.

Female socialization has changed a great deal over the past 60 years, and remained the same in other ways. While the stereotypes of females have changed some, the construction of gender is limited and rigid throughout. Media has made it so that females are defined by their bodies, not their minds. The key to socializing a girl is to find her aspiration. “In the 50 girls wanted a home and family; however, today girls want to be sexually alluring” (Pipher, 1994, p. 32). “While these are different values they all lead to the same goal, having sex” (Pipher, 1994, p. 32). Girls of the 50s and of today have one thing in mind, and that is to attract men. Girls in the 50s did this by demonstrating they could be good wives, and mothers; however, girls of today attract men by using there sex appeal.

Today’s girls are taught that they can do anything they want; however, often time’s media depicts something different. “Look at any magazine geared toward adolescent girls and you will see that we are demonstrating that a girl’s best feature is her body” (Pipher, 1994, p. 45). The majority of today’s magazines are geared towards fashion, beauty, and love. Today girls spend a large amount of time on looking good. As a society we are teaching our girl’s that there body is there best asset.

Socialization is the process of creating values for that individual.

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