Summary Of Sattarah's The Daughter Of Persia

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After her marriage, Zhāle’s husband became the master of her life, due to the norm of husbands being “the God of Women”. In Iranian society, women were expected to be subservient, “an acquiescent effigy”, whereas their husbands were supposed to be the “boasting sculptor”. This traditional social and legal convention caused Zhāle to despise her life with her husband. Her marriage was mismatched as she was a sensitive soul who yearned for love and affection whereas her husband was the leader of the bakhtiari tribe, a stern man who had taken a wife to fulfill typical household duties. Her relationship with her husband was the subject of many of her poems as she used negative imagery and metaphors to describe him. For instance, Zhāle compared …show more content…

She chronicled her journey as a young girl living in her father’s andarun until her escape from Iran after the Islamic Revolution of 1979. Sattarah’s account offers an important perspective of the pressures she encountered from her family to conform to the mold of being an ideal wife. Furthermore, it provides an insightful perspective as to why she was able to escape social conventions. Sattarah was raised to believe that marriage and bearing children was what gave women value, standing and respect. Her father, Shazdeh, believed that women, being the weaker sex, or zaifeh, were ruled by ungovernable passions and as a result needed to be protected from themselves and strange men by fathers, brothers and husbands. Sattarah noted: “A woman by herself was nothing, a nonentity, a creature who without a father, brother, husband, or son to guide her was incapable of making important decisions, looking after herself properly, or even leading a moral life.” The supposedly weak state of the female mind was the reason why her mother, Khanom, always thought women should be submissive and obedient. In order to find Satti a husband, due to her weakness, Khanom had to ensure she was conditioned to behave like a “proper” woman. Due to her families conservative opinions, it seemed as though Sattarah’s future as …show more content…

As a child, she considered herself as an equal to her brothers and was their playmate in the biruni. Furthermore, her father “had long entertained the highly unorthodox notion that education made women better wives.” Therefore he ensured that all his daughters received the a proper education, similar to their brothers, by attending school six days a week and being tutored in mathematics, reading and poetry. This was in addition to their traditional female education which included household management, sewing and religion. Essentially, the purpose of educating women was to prepare them to be better wives. Yet this education caused Sattarah to think independently and to challenge traditional values. Essentially, educating Satti, caused her to pave a life path of her own instead of conforming and getting an arranged marriage. It fuelled a desire to learn more and help others which ultimately led to her leaving Iran. However, her desire to “do something with my life” was met with an important obstacle. When Khanom mentioned Satti’s request to study abroad to her father, he refused by saying: “She is a woman. A woman will be nothing.” In his opinion, a zaifeh was incapable of living without the protection of a husband. Since her life was in the hands of her father, Sattarah was forced to comply with his demand to marry any man he chose for her. However, before he found her a

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