My Father compare to Grandmother Macleod
In the short story “To Set Our House in Order,” written by Margaret Laurence, the narrator, Vanessa, is an adult looking back at an important event from her childhood. This story represents Vanessa’s grandmother Macleod as a very negative woman who is having so many troubles that her son and his family have moved into her house to help since she can no longer afford a housekeeper when the depression goes bad. In my childhood, my experience with my father was similar to Vanessa’s experience with her grandmother. My father was also a negative person who, I believe, had many troubles in his past life too. In my experience, Grandmother Macleod and my father are very much alike in their controlling, in their self-centered, and in their judgmental attitudes towards people and life.
In the story, Vanessa’s grandmother Macleod shows her controlling attitude when Vanessa’s mother has gone into labor two weeks before her due date. Grandmother Macleod criticizes her son, Vanessa’s father that his wife has gone into labor early because he has not followed her command. So she says, “I did tell you, Ewen, did I not, that you should have got a girl in to help her with the housework? She would have rested more” (85-86). In addition, grandmother Macleod shows her controlling attitude when she orders her son, Ewen, to name his new born son after his dead bother, Roderick, Vanessa’s uncle who died in war as a soldier. When he refuses to obey to his mother’s order by saying, “I’d rather not” (97), his mother insists with her quiet but balminess voice: “I think you should” (97). At this point Ewen is pressured by his mother to name his child after Roderick because he feels guilty of what happened to his broth...
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...an become a lady like she is My father started his marriage disapproving any male friend that my mother used to have by finding every little mistakes he thought they may had. Then, he did not like us or our friends; beside my father beating or judging me, I really cannot remember day that my father had told me that I did a good job he was always negative to others. My father and Vanessa’s grandmother both have a great common in their judgmental attitudes. Vanessa, the narrator, experiences her grandmother Macleod judgemental attitudes towed Vanessa’s Aunt Edna her mother’s sister
My father thought he was doing what seemed to be right for him; Vanessa’s Grandmother Macleod also thinks she is doing the same as my father did however, both my father and grandmother Macleod ended up having attitudes that were way too controlling, too self-centered, and too judgemental.
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