Personal Dialogue and Reality: I and Thou by Martin Buber

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Martin Buber’s “I and Thou” delivers a philosophy of private dialogue as it describes how personal dialogue can outline the character of reality. The book’s main theme is that life could also be outlined by the manner in which people tend to interact in dialogue with one another, with nature, and with God. According to Buber, a person might have two attitudes: I-Thou or I-It. I-Thou is a subject-to-subject relationship, whereas I-It is a subject-to-object relationship.
Within the I-Thou relationship, people are conscious of one another and acknowledge their existence. They actively participate in a conversation resulting in unity. However, in the I-It relationship, people view one another as being made up of detailed qualities, and perceive themselves as only a part of a world that contains things. I-Thou is a mutual relationship of support, whereas I-It is a relationship of disconnection and being separate.
Buber discusses that a person might attempt to change an I-Thou relationship to an I-It relationship, or the other way around. However, according to Buber, when a subject is studied as an object, the subject is no longer a Thou, but instead becomes an It. Therefore, the subject which is examined as an object is the It in an I-It relationship.
The subject-to-subject relation affirms every subject as having a unity of being. Once a subject matter becomes an I-Thou relation, it involves the subject’s whole being. Thus, the I-Thou relation is an act of selecting, or being chosen, to become the topic of a subject-to-subject relation. The topic becomes a subject matter through the I-Thou relation, and therefore the act of selecting this relation affirms the subject’s whole being.
Buber says that the I-Thou relation isn’t a way to ...

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... read it sporadically, I was reminded of Buber and how God is the epitome of any relationship.
Both Arthur and Buber believe that having a flourishing relationship with God is vital to the Christian walk. Buber sees God as the eternal Thou, and our relationship with God as the primary example of any other relationship whether it be between a subject or an object. Kay also states that when we have a true relationship with God, first and foremost, everything else in our lives falls into place. With God as our number one priority, we have a better understanding of who He is, by joining the ultimate I-Thou relationship.

Works Cited

Arthur, Kay. Having a Real Relationship with God. Colorado Springs, CO: WaterBrook, 2001. Print.
Buber, Martin. I and Thou. New York: Scribner, 1958. Print.
"The Christian Broadcasting Network." Kay Arthur. N.p., n.d. Web. 19 Feb. 2014.

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