The Importance Of Home Life

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In the first my first eighteen years of live, not much about my family had changed. We still stayed in the same house in the country outside of Chambers, Nebraska. My father still milked cows on the family dairy farm, which meant that we could never enjoy a family vacation that was more than a day long. The traditional strong but silent type of a conservative farmer, during the only time that my family came to visit me at college, my father said less than five words to me. I knew that he loved me, but he just wasn’t as communicative at expressing his feelings. I would go several days in a row without ever seeing my dad because whenever I was home, he was either at the farm, sleeping, or watching television while I was doing homework. On the other hand, my mother rarely left home, choosing to be a housewife …show more content…

In order to brace myself against homesickness, my coping mechanism was to instead not appreciate my home life at all any more. In order to stifle the pain of missing my family and my family missing me, I behaved in such a way that would make them want to get rid of me and not miss me anymore. During my freshman year of college, I could probably count on my hands how many times I talked with my mother on the phone, and I can’t remember any phone conversations with my dad at all last year. It’s not that I rejected their communication attempts; we just got to the point of acknowledging that we would only communicate when necessary or when I wanted something out of them. The first time I went home in October, I brought a friend back with me to be my crutch so that I could be distracted from fully confronting the prospect of slipping back into my previous life. During my freshman year, I took the three-and-a-half hour trip home a total of four times. For similar reasons, I chose to spend the summer after my freshman year working in an internship four hours away from

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