Popularity In High School Popularity

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Life in high school is not so easy for teenagers. There are many obstacles that students will have to overcome, such as the stress of homework, peer pressure, sexual activity, and most of all popularity. For many teens, popularity is a huge part of high school. Teens are expected to keep their grades up, have a social life, and to somehow have time for themselves and their family. Professor Allen stated that even if a student was very popular in high school, everyone still had the experiences of being rejected or feeling left out. No one can make it through four years of high school without emotional scars. Many will argue that popularity is about being likable. Others will argue that popularity is about being well-known. “The apparently golden status known as popularity is not what it seems” (McGownan, 2005). Social psychologists have recently realized that the “popular” kids are not especially well-liked--and they are not particularly nice, either says Kathleen (2005). Kathleen McGowan (2005) said that some students are much better liked than …show more content…

Carl (2010) says that “popularity means you have a well-established social place among peers who want to be with you, with whom you have social standing, with whom you can hang out, and who can provide the accepting companionship you need.” Students in high school fight to be the most popular. The pretty, wealthy girls are usually at the top and the handsome jocks who play sports, are up top along with them. The popular group includes the children that have a high self-esteem, and are proud of themselves and their life, they are very well liked, and people want to be more like them. This is why other children want to be friends with them, or at least be a part of their group. It is important to teenagers to be popular because they want to feel

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