Warsan Shire's Teaching My Mother How To Give Birth

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Warsan Shire titled in her book of Teaching My Mother How to Give Birth expressing the uncompromising decisions immigrants and refugees must make as they are experiencing tragedies, for the survival of their families and theirs. Shire must transform herself as a different identity, to start a new chapter of her life, as her native-born country depicts her and the accent she carries within herself. Now that she has settled herself, she is aware that her life will be full of obstacles, but won’t know when to encounter them. Shire reunites her sense of nostalgia by her “...own city” pulling her “by the hair...” because she recalls the tragedies that occurred in the scenarios. The bad experience she went through, has made her realize that it can …show more content…

She'll never forget the past, but won't hold on to what happened; tries to move on and adapt to her new life. The “blackouts and curfews...” is what made Shire settle down as she reflects upon. She continues to apprehend the values that were given to her and has turned out to better herself for the best. The inconceivable choices refugees must make, has put them to reconsider what they’ve done to deserve all evilness. They have allowed themselves to be dehumanized for the result of winning back their place. Shire “can’t afford to forget” her language because she is identified as to where she came from and carries the culture in her. She is consumed by the memory of the place she was forced to flee and never come back. She has previously had amalgamated feelings towards her nation, but if she does not maintain her roots in her, she will learn to forget. The unforgettable footprints that get marked in her hometown will always mark the ending of her country and people. Nostalgia has signified a person where they’re from. Things are not like they used to be. Shire notices the change of her not being recognized in her new country by her beauty, but through …show more content…

The sensation that Shire can finally be understood by her native peers and feel the connection through images of “...memory of ash on their faces.” The barriers that they faced, spoke a lot about who they truly are, but have continued to suffer ever since the point, in which they started flying out to settle somewhere else. Others who have not put themselves in their shoes, have felt the obligation of encountering acceptable roles, languages, customs, notions, and changes in their native land. Shire and her people will begin to disappear little by little, while nobody notices them. Shire asserts that “..tongue against loose tooth.” makes her feel like home once again and is able to cherish her stories. Their definition of beautiness will never scope other’s attraction. Through the back of their minds, all they remember is everything happening so fast that they can’t recall when was the last time they had smile. They have come to comprehend that they were put under control through “curfews” for the sake of safeness in their neighborhood. The “..old anthem in my mouth…” has given Shire the will of “no space” to forget. Although home will never be replaced by its uniqueness, home can also be found by those who were forced to obey and never come back, in a different place in

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