Theme Of Friendship In Jane Austen's Emma

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In Jane Austen’s Emma, an emphasis is placed on the importance of female friendships. In particular, Austen places a great deal of emphasis on how Emma treats the women she calls her friends. In many ways, Emma manipulates the people in her life to fit her specific expectations for them. This can be seen in her matchmaking, especially Harriet’s relationship with Mr. Martin. Emma’s manipulation of various relationships serves as a way to control the friendships she has with the women in her life. By matching her friends with the men she has chosen for them, Emma can not only elevate their status but also keep these women in her life as well. It is only when her friendships are affected by marriage that Emma re-evaluates the role of marriage in her own life. Emma’s matchmaking begins when she pairs her governess, Miss Taylor, and Mr. Weston. Although …show more content…

Weston’s marriage, Emma looks for companionship in Harriet Smith. Emma and Harriet’s friendship is one in which Emma is the dominating figure and this is the reason Emma is drawn to Harriet in the first place. Harriet is dependent on Emma for good social standing as Harriet comes from no known family nor fortune. Her dependency can be seen in how Emma manipulates her love life. Emma discourages Harriet’s affection towards Mr. Martin by saying that he is inferior to her. After telling her this, Emma admits that by rejecting Mr. Martin, the two of them are able to still be friends. She tells Harriet, “It would have grieved me to lose your acquaintance, which must have been the consequence of you marrying Mr. Martin... it would have been the loss of a friend to me. I would not have visited Mrs. Robert Martin, of Abbey-Mill Farm. Now I am secure of you forever,” (Austen 52). Rather than encouraging Harriet, she insists that Mr. Elton is a more suitable match. By manipulating Harriet’s love life, Emma finds a way to maintain the intimacy she has with her most loyal

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