Sacrifice In A Lesson Before Dying

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In society today, sacrifice is typically associated with a negative connotation, usually dealing with martyrdom. On the contrary, how a person sacrifices in their life is what defines them and reveals their true character. Throughout A Lesson Before Dying, by Ernest Gaines, Grant is compelled to make sacrifices in his personal life and career in order to show Jefferson that he is a human, just like everyone else. Grant had to make sacrifices in time, his pride, and his own emotions so that he could help Jefferson leave this earth with dignity. These sacrifices show that the purpose of the book is to show readers that people do the most good when they have to make sacrifices in their own lives. Grant is ambushed at first when it comes to …show more content…

Throughout the story, Grant is constantly at odds with his aunt, who was the one that originally made him help Jefferson. As a result of visiting Jefferson, Grant become emotionally distraught at times. This causes him and his aunt to clash as the story progresses. Grant made a big sacrifice in his relationship with his aunt in order to make sure someone was there for Jefferson and to make sure Jefferson knew he mattered. Another way his emotions were tested was with his relationship with Vivian. Him and Vivian were closer than ever at the start of the story. She was the one that supported Grant and made him want to keep helping Jefferson. The feelings Grant would feel after meeting with Jefferson were the same feelings Grant showed to Vivian. If the meetings went well, then Grant would be excited to see Vivian and tell her all about it. If the meetings were bad, then Grant would be in a bad mood and treat Vivian differently. These meetings affected their relationship and Grant lost sight of the fact that Vivian was there trying to help him. Sacrificing parts of his relationship with Vivian shows that Grant is willing to put Jefferson before others and to make sure Jefferson is at peace. Grant accomplishes what others think is impossible. He manages to have the biggest influence on Jefferson over anyone else, but at the expense of things in his own

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