Reflection Of Reading In Jane Austen's Pride And Prejudice

With books, it is possible to explore the world, live in a different time period, or take a glimpse into the future. Reading can take you anywhere at anytime. However, this is not the only pleasurable insight reading could give you. In my case, reading allows me to see the world in a different perspective from someone else’s lens and unexpectedly learn more about myself along the way. These things are exactly what happened when I read Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen. The classic novel is about Elizabeth Bennet as she deals with culture, morality, education, and social hierarchy. The story takes place in England in the 19th century, when there was more gender inequality. Women are successful when they find a fine, rich man to marry and

I believe I will undoubtedly refuse a proposal of a man I do not love regardless of his wealth or connection. Afterall, I can be successful financially without having to sacrifice happiness, romance and sense of individuality. However, I live in the 21st century. Women have more rights now to work and to sustain ourselves. That is not the case, two centuries ago. I began to put myself in Elizabeth’s shoes unconsciously. It would be harder for me to refuse what could be my only opportunity to secure my future. Nevertheless, I think I would still refuse Mr. Collins’ proposal too, like Elizabeth did. My two closest friends who know me very well think so too. Unlike Elizabeth though, I think I would have some regrets afterwards. When it is too late, I will realize that I should have accepted it, like my mother, Mrs. Bennet, told me to do. It dawns on me that my parents have more influence on my decisions than I have always thought. I would then make up an idea that will support my parents’ side such as Mr. Collins could be my haven while I think of a way to earn my own money. By then, it would be too late and I would just have to forget it. In contradictory, if Mr. Collins would propose again after my regrets, I think I would still refuse him because marrying him means I would be stuck with him forever. I would attend many balls in attempt to meet a gentleman who will make me happy. There is someone out there for me. However, whether I end up marrying someone I love or not, I am still conforming to society by doing what women are ought to do, which is to find a man to marry. I am a