In Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen, Elizabeth Bennet, second daughter, is popular as a potential wife. Living in a house with a mother who is trying to marry off her daughters despite age or character, Elizabeth expresses less interest in the practicality of marriage. Although her likelihood of marrying into a high social status is low due to her own middle class status and a poor family reputation, she rejects her first two marriage offers, both by men in beneficial social standings. The first proposal is from a most distasteful cousin, Mr. Collins, while the second two are from Mr. Darcy, a wealthy man who develops from his arrogance into an acceptable fit for Elizabeth. Differing from her sisters and mother, Elizabeth values the character …show more content…
Mr. Collins is the first to be rejected by Elizabeth and with this rejection Austen proves that on the occasion of proposing, showing feeling is imperative. Though he does attempt it, Mr. Collins fails to pull at Elizabeth’s heartstrings in any way as he remarks, “But before I am run away with my feelings on the subject.” Austen later describes him with “solemn composure” (Austen 103). Being near the beginning of Mr. Collins’ proposal (as it is a long one), Austen uses irony to portray Mr. Collins as actually a very unemotional man. Mr. Collins’s order of importance discredits him being “run away with [his] feelings” when he says “But before” as his priority is stating the logical reasons for his proposal and …show more content…
Darcy as a selfish, vain man at first and he is the second to propose to Elizabeth and swiftly denied. Mr. Darcy’s overbearing phrase “You must allow me to tell you,” has a dominant tone, implied by the demand: “you must” (Austen 185). Mr. Darcy’s superiority, even in confessing his love, cuts off the possibility of personal attachment by placing him and Elizabeth on two different levels and repels love for him by condescending her with dominance. Elizabeth being a character of independence and strong will, his superiority over her is an insult. Mr. Darcy’s high status gives him credibility as well as his brutal honesty: “In vain have I struggled” (Austen 185). He tells her outright that he has tried to resist his feelings for her, but he cannot, which tells one that he is not lying. Especially with his reputation of not associating outside his social group, the reader understands this must be outside his comfort zone to be “tempted” by one inferior to him. However, his credibility is trodden underfoot by his insulting language and lack of
Elizabeth from Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice is bright, direct, and unapologetic. Throughout the novel she proves to have her aspirations and goals clear and will not settle for any less. She refuses proposals from men in high places who would more than likely rise her hierarchal status, simply because the men would not make her happy. Austen makes it very clear that Elizabeth sets herself apart. When Darcy and Bingley are discussing what makes a woman accomplished, Elizabeth is quick to refute this claim because she, “never saw such capacity, and taste, and application, and elegance.”(Austen) Lizzy is typical in that she is a self-acclaimed woman who is “not like other women” but like all humans, she is susceptible to the effects
Furthermore, seen in the novel is Austen’s depiction of Mr. Collins as strange man who knows nothing more than to be unconventionally odd. Austen wrote, “Mr. Collins, to be sure, was neither sensible nor agreeable; his society was irksome, and his attachment to her must be imaginary” (Austen 120). Here she presents the thought that it is more reasonable for Elizabeth to marry a prideful man rather than a weird one. She goes on to describe him as a nuisance for those around him including his love interest, Elizabeth. The novel makes it clear that Elizabeth would not settle for the strange man who could only offer stability. Moreover, author Danielle Lucio from Chapman University, wrote in the Jane Austen Society of North America an article called Punctual to His Time: An
Elizabeth’s love towards Mr. Darcy does bring questions towards the idea of love. This is because Elizabeth’s love for Mr. Darcy grows without direct contact. When Elizabeth visits Darcy’s home she realizes she has feelings for Darcy, and learns about his character. The house is a mirror to Darcy’s character himself. It is well kept, clean, and “real”. These feelings of love arose from admiration. Elizabeth falls for Darcy through learning about his character. At the same time, the author allows the reader to see Darcy admiring and taking interest in Elizabeth and her wit. Darcy says, "In vain I have struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you (Austen 34)” Darcy shows the reader that he has been struck with admiration for some
Thinking that he truly has lost Elizabeth brings out a more sensitive and sympathetic side of Darcy, and he proposes a second time. This proposal however, marks the real release of his prideful ways, and as Austin put it “was as sensibly and as warmly as a man violently in love can be supposed to do"(Austin 157). This proposal marks Darcy giving up his pride about social class, and Elizabeth being hurt by him and his judgments. She accepts, and they finally allow themselves to be happy.
The attitude used by Dickens is much more affectionate and personal than that of Austen. In the beginning of Dickens’ proposal he says “I love you” (Dickens 1). This start shows that he is truly admires this woman, Austen however, begins the proposal with, “my reasons for marrying are…” (Austen 1). The attitudes
Elizabeth's lively, straightforward, daring character and her disregard for considerations of rank show through clearly in her reaction to Darcy's proposal. Her pride is also evident, for the lack of civility in her refusal is due primarily to injured pride resulting from Darcy's frank explanation of his reservations about proposing to her because of her inferior connections.
Darcy, the illusion that Mr. Wickham had built surrounding himself was now shattered: “How different did everything appear in which he was concerned.” Elizabeth now realizes her mistakes, which her prejudice was built and hopefully will never fall for such deceit again. Mr. Darcy is not the only one who is haughty, Elizabeth’s pride takes a massive blow after reading the letter, “she grew absolutely ashamed.” Realizing her mistakes will make Elizabeth grow as a person as she realizes how despicable she was, and has learned from her mistakes. Elizabeth had always thought she had the perfect judgement, but in fact she was horribly blind: “Till this moment I never knew myself.” Elizabeth now sees that she has flaws and it got in the way of her judgement rendering it blind. It is in maturity that people see their flaws; now Elizabeth has to make sure the same mistakes does not happen again. It was only after her prejudice of Mr. Darcy was finally gone that Elizabeth realized her true feelings towards him: “She explained what it’s [the letter] effect on her had been, and how gradually all her former prejudice has been removed.” After reading the letter, Elizabeth was able to realize her flaws as a character and grow into maturity and because of that she was able to see her true feelings about Mr.
Austen disapproves of Mr. Collins and that is why she attacks and satirizes him. Mr. Collins is a "suck-up." His living with Lady Catherine has caused him to demoralize himself. He thinks and talks highly of people higher than himself, such as, Lady Catherine DeBourgh. An example of this is when they were invited to dine with Lady Catherine DeBourgh and Mr. Collins then tells Elizabeth,
The reader is first acquainted with Mr. Darcy's arrogance at the Meryton Ball. Speaking of Elizabeth Bennet, he so snobbishly says that she was, " tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me" (Austen 9). His feelings of superiority to the people of the town lend Mr. Darcy to be judged as a man with a repulsive and cruel personality. The women, who had found him dashingly attractive at first glance, deemed him a man unworthy of marriage because he offered no positive qualities other than wealth. Not only did Darcy refuse to dance with Elizabeth, but he makes it clear that no woman in the room was worthy or met his standards of a suitable partner stating that, " there is not another woman in this room, whom it would not be a punishment to me to stand up with" (Austen 8). In the beginning of the novel, Mr. Darcy is only concerned with the wealth and social standing of the people in the town. Because of their lesser social rank, he feels they are un-deserving of his presence and refuses to communicate with them. As the novel progressed, however, Darcy became more and more accepting of the Bennet family. Growing most fond of Elizabeth Bennet, the straightforward, clever daughter, he finally breaks and confesses his true feelings of love for her. "In vain...
She also hurts Mr. Collins pride in himself by refusing his proposal, “My dear madam' replied he, ‘let us be for ever silent on this point. Far be it from me,” he presently continued in a voice that marked his displeasure, ‘to resent the behavior, I am resigned.” (Austen 20. ) Collins is embarrassed and affronted by Elizabeth’s refusal, so much so, that he enters into an unhappy and loveless marriage with her best friend, that he had not originally planned. Finally, Darcy’s pride also gets in the way of Bingley, his best
During this time period, men are expected to marry accomplished women who are on the same intellectual level as them, but it is almost impossible for women to be on the same intellectual level as men because they do not receive the same level of education as the men do. Also, women are expected to marry man whose family has a high social status, whether he is accomplished or not. Darcy and Elizabeth disobey this social value at the end of Pride and Prejudice where they get married to each other. Darcy is looked down on for getting married to someone of a lower social status, while Elizabeth is seen as someone who has married up into a higher social standing. Their marriage is seen as an untraditional one because instead of getting married because of society’s social values, they were getting married because of their love for each other. This is an example of how Darcy’s horrible first impression on Elizabeth was turned around by his ability to change his manners because of his love for
Darcy discloses his sense of pride, conceited judgement, and obsession with status, which from the get go create a hindrance in Darcy’s plan to marry Elizabeth. Although Darcy is complimenting Elizabeth by asking for her hand in marriage, he describes his decision as a “vain… struggle”(185) and that his “feelings will not be repressed”(185). Darcy’s word choice is offensive, degrading, and implies that he not only attempted to subdue is feelings towards Elizabeth, but also that those attempts were a failure, and that is the only reason he is asking for her hand in marriage. By opening his proposal with reasons why he does not want to marry Elizabeth Darcy immediately sets himself up for failure and heartbreak. Later in his poorly crafted proposal, Darcy is forceful and expects only a yes to his marriage proposal, leaving no room to learn what Elizabeth thinks or how she feels on the subject. Darcy proclaims “you must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you”(185). The word “must” does not enable Elizabeth to make any other decision than listening to Darcy and even implies that he already knows Elizabeth will accept his hand in marriage. Darcy’s preconceived notions of Elizabeth’s reactions to his request and his forcefulness in telling her how he feels, do not create an environment that supports a productive conversation between Darcy and
Collins is the next one developed in Pride and Prejudice. The reasons for this ‘courtship’ are staged and written in an almost comical nature which emphasizes just how absurd Austen feels about an alliance of this sort. In this couple Austen offers up Mr. Collins as an example that men also feel great pressure to marry. In fact, Mr. Collins felt the pressure so strongly that he proposed to two women in the span of three days. His proposal to Elizabeth in chapter 19 is a hilarious speech that states laughable reasons for marriage, ``My reasons for marrying are, first, that I think it a right thing for every clergyman in easy circumstances to set the example of matrimony in his parish. Secondly, that I am convinced it will add very greatly to my happiness; and thirdly -- which perhaps I ought to have mentioned earlier, that it is the particular advice and recommendation of the very noble lady whom I have the honour of calling patroness”. Charlotte’s reasoning for the alliance was similarly bland. In chapter 22 she states, “Mr. Collins to be sure was neither sensible nor agreeable; his society was irksome, and his attachment to her must be imaginary. But still he would be her husband. Without thinking highly either of men or of matrimony, marriage had always been her object; it was the only honourable provision for well-educated young women of small
Throughout Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Darcy is a grave symbol of pride. He notes on how his societal ranking is too high above Elizabeth’s for it to be rational to marry her, while proposing to her for the first time. In a letter to Elizabeth, Darcy also notes how the Bennet family’s improper manners and actions negatively influence the perception of their family and undermine the acceptable traits and actions of Elizabeth and Jane. He is easily looked down upon, most pertinently by Elizabeth until his past is revealed in a
While this is going on, Mr. Darcy realizes he has feelings for Elizabeth and proposes to her, this is the climax of the novel. She is astonished by his actions, and turns him flat. She explains that she feels he is arrogant, and feels he stood in the way of Jane and Mr. Bingley marrying, and also feels he is a cruel man, especially in his treating of Mr. Wickham, she is expressing her prejudice towards him. He leaves and they part very angry with each other. Mr. Darcy then writes Elizabeth a letter, explaining his feelings, defending his actions, and revealing the true nature of Mr. Wickham.