Kinship In Waterlily

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In the novel Waterlily by Ella Cara Deloria, kinship plays a key role in the depiction of Dakota society in the novel. Throughout the novel, kinship is instrumental in the development of community ties and familial relations throughout Dakota society. With her depiction of kinship roles and obligations, Deloria argues that kinship brings honor and interconnectedness between the members of society. Through her portrayal of Waterlily’s communities ties, her view of kinship practices is strengthened through her illustration of the Dakota civilization’s view that kinship practices help extend graciousness throughout their community and create bonds that last throughout generations. Through Deloria’s depiction of Rainbow’s relationship with his …show more content…

While her family did not force her into the marriage, she felt that her duty to her family was more important than her own fears over the situation: “She was worried on another score, too. Ought she accept so that her devoted brother Little Chief could have those handsome horses? That would be one big way of showing her high regard for him… At the same time, she wished there were some other equally impressive gesture that would not be so final and decisive for her” (Deloria, 150). In this instance, her willing sacrifice shows the importance that she places on her family and her kinship ties. When she decides to marry her suitor, Waterlily aims to bring honor on her family and support her community with her loyalty. In the Dakota society, helping their society to success is more important than personal gain. Although Waterlily feels hesitant to makes these difficult choices at her own expense, she feels that her choices to honor kinship obligations strengthens her ties to the …show more content…

With her attention to the kinship practices of Waterlily’s family, Deloria shows that the Dakota society uses these practices to honor and grace the members of their family. She allows readers to see that members of the Dakota society valued the interconnectedness of their society and aimed to extend it through kinship practices. In the quest to insure that all people in the Dakota community received honor, the members of Waterlily’s tiyospaye used these kinship practices properly insure that respect follows them for all of their

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