Intimacy Vs. Isolation

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a. Erik Erickson’s theory pf psychosocial development is composed of different stages that everyone must go through. It is important for every individual to achieve at every stage, and it will lead to a healthy personality. If a person fails a stage it can lead to despair, or in different cases depression. When reaching adulthood we reach the stage of Intimacy vs. Isolation, which is people who are 18 to 40 years of age. During this stage of life the person begins to share themselves more intimately with other people. They are seeking a long lasting relationship, someone they can share their life together with. If a person who is in this stage avoids intimacy it can consequential lead to isolation. Isolations leads to being lonely and in different …show more content…

Morality is the distinction between right and wrong. If people have morality they can differentiate between good and bad behavior. During early childhood children do not have the same sense of morality as older children, because they are just beginning to develop their own sense of moral judgement. During this stage children feel as if punishment is what drives their moral judgement. If a child takes a toy away from another child, and that child begins to cry, the child that stole the toy does not worry about the child’s feelings. Only if the child will get punished for his or her actions. According to Jean Piget, “young children ages 5 to 10 years see the world through a heteronomous morality.” This is where the children feel adults have rules in place for them to follow and they are not flexible at all. Kohlberg calls this the pre-conventional level of his theory of moral development. This is where people judge the morality of an action by its direct consequence. Stage one of Kohlberg’s theory is driven by obedience and punishment. Stage two is self-interest driven. Individuals in this stage have the mindset of what is in it for them. Stage three which is in the next level known as conventional. This stage is known as good intentions as determined by social consensus. The individuals in this stage enter society and acts according to social standards. Stage four is driven by authority and social order obedience. This individual in this stage knows it’s important to obey laws, and to maintain a functioning society. The last level is Post-Conventional. Stage five is driven by social contract. In this stage the individual knows there are many opinions, rights, and values. They must all be respected. The last stage is stage six. It is driven by universal ethical principles. The individual understands that legal rights are unnecessary, and social contracts are not essential for moral actions. Carol Gilligan criticizes Kohlberg for being biased in his research. Her

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