Exploring Self-Concept and Identity

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Floyd states that “Your self-concept is composed of those stable ideas about who you are; also, it is the It is your identity, your understanding of whom you are” (Floyd 72). Okay, in my mind I have played around with the self-theory who I am and what makes me, but up until reading this chapter I can honestly say that I have not really contemplated on it; however, I if I’m asked henceforth I will be able to say it without any shadow of doubts. There are more than few ways to describe conclude what self-concept and identity; when I think about identification and understanding of myself, I say that I’m a very strong minded and opinionated person; I have been viewed as stubborn because I do not to back down a like for my voice to be heard most …show more content…

Up until recent years, I have been a very open person, and like Johari window said, yeah there are somethings that can be unknown to yourself and you can discover a whole new you as you go in life. My family and friends if asked what they know about me, they would say that a stubborn person in terms of doing what makes me happy, generous, protective, emotional and etc.; now do I believe that about me, yes, I do. However, the hidden part is they don’t know is that even if I don’t agree with an argument, or suggestion, I always contemplate things over later because and might do as they have suggested; I do this because I do want to give them the satisfaction of feeling that they have won and can what I do, especially if I find it to be something they see as a culturally acceptable way that I find to be for their own happiness and instead of mine. It is intriguing to have something only known to me. Yes, I have been told few things about me that I was blinded, for example my ex-fiancé told me that I always like to give the last word, because some of my friends have said the same thing, I have been trying to give the floor to others when they are talking. As for the unknown, I do have an idea of what and how I want it to be, I think a lot nowadays about marrying a person from another race/culture because I …show more content…

The way I understand Self-fulfilling prophecy is the result of what of your actions or what you set in motion. If I’m to relate this to myself, I’ll say yes, my self-fulling is to keep doing my part not only to get excellent grades, do graduate with honors, and keep prevailing in my profession, position of choice, and in my personal life. I do see that Self-fulfilling prophecy is starting to come to pass and because I don’t know what tomorrow holds, I will keeping working on making sure that my communication with other people of other and what I believe for myself is positively

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