Background Literature
Rosaline is a 32 year old secretary. She has one son Earl from a previous marriage. Earl is 10 years old and in the 5th grade. Rosaline’s current husband Carl is 35 years old. He works in the OR Room as a attendent Carl is currently incarcerated serving a two year prison sentence due to numerous traffic violations. Carl’s son Carl Jr in which they call “dude” is 12 years old and in the 7th grade. Earl has no contact with his biological father, which can have a grave impact on his behavior given his age. Earl does not understand and/or know why he does not have contact with his father. He looks at his mother for the answers and starts to laugh. Earl depicted some form of resistance when consultant ask who or what he was
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Separation, loss, and divorces is also noted within this family. I believe that Earl’s acting out is a result of his separation from his father. Carl Jr’s dad Carl which is Earl’s step-father is currently incarcerated. Rosaline’s stress level has probably intensified since Carl’s incarceration.
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The communication style of the Taylor Family is flawed. The Taylor Family possess a masked and indirect form of communication. Within the “Parental Subsystem” Rosaline and Carl do not discuss in ways to effectively discipline Earl. Carl noted that Rosaline would spank Earl most of the time, in which Carl would talk with Earl. Carl suggested that he believes he should become friends with Earl before he could become step-dad. Rosaline informed consultant that the children do not listen to her right away, therefore she has to resort to other effective resources. During the session the family depicted verbal and non-verbal communication. The family would laugh at time where nothing seemed funny, the laughter appeared to be in a form of nervousness. During certain questions Rosaline depicted a tone of defense, as if, she needed to defend herself towards the consultant. The parents are not able to effectively talk about their differences as noted by the consultant. The parents have different views on discipline and religion in regards to the
Building off of the fact they were both raised independently, both my parents needed to acquire there own money and finance their own educations. Another aspect that similar on the surface, but shows a key difference upon further investigation is their experiences with corporal punishment. While both Lisa and Michael experienced corporal punishment as a form of discipline, they experienced it in different settings; Michael’s parents used slapping as the form of discipline for stepping out of line, while Lisa experienced in the academic setting with the nuns at her
According to smith and Hamon (2012), Families are considered as a whole in society. However, they believed that couples have many components in which makes up the family, if one component is missing, the family as a whole can get unbalance (Smith & Hamon, 2012). In the Brice’s family, communication was the component that was missing. The couple was not able to communicate their differences, which was what caused Carolyn and David to verbally insult each other. Smith and Hamon (2012), also explain that a person who expresses his or her feeling is considered as someone who is breaking the functions of their family system; especially if the person is focusing on the individual who is causing the problem, rather than the problem itself. In the Brice family, Carolyn could be considered the one that cause the dysfunction in the family structure because she was focusing on David as the problem of their marriage, rather than focusing of the elements that are causing their problems. Smith and Hamon (2012) explain that individuals should focus on how to solve a problem, rather than trying to find who is causing the
Two people with two completely different characteristics have something alike. Both Dally and Johnny are mentally tough because of their parents. Johnny and Dally’s parents both do not care for them and could care less about them. For example, during Dally’s childhood he went to jail, been in a gang, and has been in many fights and his dad still would not care for him even if he won the lottery. Dally also talks about his dad's disgrace towards him in the car with Johnny and Ponyboy, “‘ Shoot, my dad don’t give a hang whether I’m in jail or dead in a car wreck or drunk in a gutter...’”(88). Dally could easily live without his dad and he does for the most part. Dally just hangs around with his friends and stays at their place. Similarly, Johnny's parents use him like a rag doll to blow off steam, “his father always beating him up”(14). The gang knows what happenes in Johnny’s house. Once Ponyboy was witnessing, “Johnny take a whipping with a two-by-four from his old man”(33). Ponyboy talks about how loud and mean Johnny's mom is and,“you can...
When horrific crimes occur in large cities, many of them can be chalked up to gang violence or to the larger population of that specific city. But when horrific crimes happen in small cities like Lincoln, Nebraska, people begin to ask questions like who did this and why. In 1958, a nineteen year old man named Charles Starkweather put the entire state of Nebraska and possibly the entire nation in a state of terror. With his murder spree taking only three days, Starkweather had collected a body count of ten bodies, including two teenagers and a young child. Understanding Starkweather’s past and state of mind begins to answer the second question of why.
Chelsea, the daughter of Ethel and Norman, is at a very difficult stage in her life. She has divorced already and is back in the dating game, this time her partner is a dentist named Bill who has a 13 year old son, Billy. Billy stays with her parents while her and Bill travel around Europe, and elope in Brussels, consequently causing her boyfriend’s son to become her step son. Step parent/step children families are becoming increasingly commonplace now. Divorce and remarriage rates are higher now than ever in the past, and with that comes a rise in the blended family. The relationship between Billy and his step mother, Chelsea, seems quite amiable. Though she is an adult now, her father’s acceptance is something that Chelsea has always craved. After returning from Europe, much to her delight and dismay, she learns of how well Billy and her father got on while she was away, despite the initial
In fact, family is the bridge of life world. During the family, children learn how to relate with institutions, whether in school officials, healthcare professionals, and assorted government officials. In middle class, children are more on interaction with institutions. Alexander, as an example, learns from his parents that he has the right to speak up and gathering his thoughts in advance when he has to deal with institutions. He interrupts his doctor’s conversation with his mother and asks question to his doctor. By contract, children in working class or poor families frequently seem cautious and constrained. Harold primarily answers questions from his doctor rather than posing his own. Thus, Alexander is assertive and confident in dealing with professional institution unlike Harold who is reserved. Therefore, children’s ability to deal with professional’s institutions is affected by parenting
The role of a parent or guardian is to nurture and help their child/children grow to full development to become an asset to society. It is important for their child to feel compassion as well as discipline. It is the parent’s responsibility to instill right and wrong as well as other good characteristics in their child's mind in order to work well with others such as their family members and soon to be classmates. This ensures that siblings will take care of each other and learn to take care of themselves when growing up and adjusting to society. In both Lionel Shriver's We Need to Talk about Kevin and Jodi Picoult's House Rules, a boy is convicted of murder because of behavior development issues. The novels show the challenges of nurturing children with development and psychological issues in different family environments. Throughout both novels parenting styles are shown often hard to execute and show great impact on a child's development in their future. This causing the mothers to blame themselves when tragedy is brought to their home. Due to many factors such as bias media representations and society's prejudice aspect of the situation the parents are found almost unable to cope with their situations. Finding the right bond in a family is tough for both parents and children and is one of the key components to coping with a family issue without feeling repressed or hated.
Family members’ ability to effectively express their emotions, insights, and ideas to each other reflects how well members relate to each other, and how well the family functions as a whole. According to Kirst-Ashman & Hull (2012) assessing communication patterns within a family is crucial to the planned change process that must occur in order to assist families reconcile their problems in the best possible way (p.331). There are various facets of communication in addition to verbal and nonverbal communication. There are at least five different paths of communication, referred to as avenues of communication, which include: consonance, condemnation, submission, intellectualization, and indifference (p. 331-332). An assessment of the various facets of communication used by a family is useful in indicating where change is
Napier notes the influence the strief in David and Carolyn 's relationship has had on the structure of the family. The roles and structure of the family has been tacitly agreed upon by all members as a way to help the parents avoid confronting their marital problems. In addition to Claudia 's role as a surrogate to the parents fighting, Don is placed as a supportive and therapeutic role in the family. He serves as the calming influence in the family and frequently defuses intense situations. The structure of the family is both an outcome of the parents dysfunction and the source of the problems that have led the family to
The most influential part of a human’s life is their relationship with their parents. All independent adult actions are based on the initial interactions between parent and child. Burgess’s mother died shortly after his birth. Blamed for taking his mother’s life by his father, Burgess was sent to live with his aunt. The relationship between child and parent was absent throughout Burgess’s entire childhood, and it is because of this that Alex DeLarge has his own “mommy and daddy issues”. The first similarity between Alex and Burgess is discussed quite briefly when Alex comes home after a fun night with his droogs, or friends. After coming home late and going into his room to play loud music, Alex is full of pride and joyfully explains that “[p]ee and em (pa and ma, dad and mom) in their bedroom next door had learnt now not to knock o...
The Andrews family consists of an African American father and mother that are in their early 50s and two teenage children. This paper will focus on primary heart health for Mrs. Andrews. Mrs. Andrews has a significant risk for developing heart disease, MI, and stroke. Mrs. Andrews non-modifiable risk factors include being an African American female in her 50s. Her modifiable risk factors include stress, hypertension, being overweight, and not seeing a primary care practitioner for two years. She quit smoking three years ago which is a modifiable risk factor that she has changed prior to this visit, the goal is not to sustain the change long term. According to the American Cancer Society the risk of developing coronary heart disease (CAD) is significantly reduced after quitting for year ("when smokers quit," 2014).
...parents were much more successful in the working world encouraged him to complete many daily activities such as choir and piano lessons. His parents engaged him in conversations that promoted reasoning and negotiation and they showed interest in his daily life. Harold’s mother joked around with the children, simply asking them questions about television, but never engaged them in conversations that drew them out. She wasn’t aware of Harold’s education habits and was oblivious to his dropping grades because of his missing assignments. Instead of telling one of the children to seek help for a bullying problem she told them to simply beat up the child that was bothering them until they stopped. Alex’s parents on the other hand were very involved in his schooling and in turn he scored very well in his classes. Like Lareau suspected, growing up
In the last two years Family Video's employee retention has dramatically decreased. Employee retention has gone from sixty five percent to a staggering fifty two percent in the last two years. Family Video is currently growing at an average of sixty new stores each year. With this rapid growth Family Video must focus on how to increase the employee retention.
Qualities of characters observed in all characters of the Wingfield family are not that rare to find in today’s world. Many families seem to live in distress due to one or the other defect in the quality of a member of the family. Laura’s unsociable and shy characters can often be seen through many children. Amanda’s pushy character or high expectations from her children is also quite common in many mothers. Tom’s character of an ambitious young man, who likes to chase his dreams but is strangled in the family due to his responsibilities towards the family, is often found in many