Edna St. David Millay Analysis

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Indira Yuldasheva B band “I, being born a woman and distressed/ By all the needs and notions of my kind/ Am urged by your propinquity to find/ Your person fair, and feel a certain zest/ To bear your body’s weight upon my breast.” Edna St. Vincent Millay was an openly-bisexual female poet in the 20th century who wrote about the female experience in regards to love and sex, which is evident in poems like “I, Being Born a Woman and Distressed”, “Thursday” and “First Fig.” Edna St. Vincent Millay shows us how we can use tone to redefine the relationship between gender and power. In “I, Being Born a Woman and Distressed”, Edna St. Vincent Millay uses a sarcastic and detached tone to demonstrate how tone redefines the relationship between …show more content…

Vincent Millay uses an apathetic tone in “Thursday” to prove that tone can change the relationship between gender and power. This is shown in the first four lines of the poem, it states, “And if I loved you Wednesday/ Well, what is that to you?/ I do not love you Thursday/ So much is true.” Millay nonchalantly states that her love for this person has disappeared in a period of twenty-four hours, showing no indication of emotion. Using an apathetic tone, Millay gets rid of the cliché that women are needy in relationships. The lack of emotion in these first few lines show that the affection she felt towards this person has completely vanished, she has no desire for their presence or approval. Millay’s problem isn’t that she’s too dependent in a relationship, it’s that she’s too fiercely independent to have long-term feelings for anyone. Millay continues with an apathetic tone in the last four lines of the poem “And why you come complaining/ Is more than I can see/ I loved you Wednesday, --yes-- but what/ Is that to me?” Millay doesn’t understand why her former lover is complaining about her fleeting feelings. By questioning their complaining, Millay coldly implies that she doesn’t owe anybody her love, even if she’s loved them before. Millay is nowhere near needy in this poem, she doesn’t fit the submissive or needy stereotype that women in her time were expected to fall under. Through her use of an apathetic tone in “Thursday”, Millay is able to redefine women as independent rather than needy and submissive, proving that tone can change the relationship between gender and

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