Death of Loved Ones in The Things They Carried by Tim O'Brien

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People feel guilt for many different reasons. For many people, guilt is felt when they tell a lie or do something that they know is wrong and get away with it. In “The Things They Carried” by Tim O’Brien, the men in the book deal with a different kind of guilt. These men deal with the guilt that many people deal with after losing a loved one or a comrade. This guilt is difficult to cope with, and the men all have different ways of coping with their guilt. Three men who had to deal with guilt are Tim O’Brien, Lieutenant Cross, and Bob Kiley (a.k.a. Rat Kiley)
The death of a loved one or a comrade is hard to deal with. When guilt is added, it becomes even more difficult to deal with. These men have 3 very different ways of coping with their guilt. One man brutally kills a baby buffalo. One man burns pictures of a girl he loved to help him focus. The last man wrote stories to cope with the things he did during the war.
Rat Kiley has to deal with the guilt of losing a close friend in the war. It happened on a day of humping. The men stopped in a very peaceful place to take a break and relax. Rat Kiley and his friend Curt Lemon sat under some giant trees with a quadruple canopy and no sun light getting through. The two men began to play a game of chicken with smoke grenades. They would throw them back and forth until one of the two chickened out or got covered in smoke from the grenade. Smoke grenades were harmless, so when one went off the men danced around and giggled, having a good time.
Curt Lemon and Rat Kiley were having a lot of fun under their canopy of trees. After a while of the two men playing with the smoke grenades, Curt Lemon steps out from under the trees. When he takes a step, he triggers a booby trapped 105 round....

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...and about how Norman almost saved him but he let him go. Tim wrote the story, but it didn’t seem right to Norman. A few months after Norman read the story, he was found in the YMCA. “Speaking of Courage” was re-written and added to “The Things They Carried” after Norman hanged himself in the YMCA. O’Brien felt guilty about the original version not satisfying Norman, and also about Norman’s death. Fixing the story and adding it to the book was O’Brien’s way of getting rid of his guilt.
Guilt is a difficult thing for many people to deal with. Everyone copes in a different way. Some people write stories, some people try to make others feel their pain, and some people just detach themselves from the things that make them feel guilty. Coping may be difficult, but everyone has their own way to not feel guilty. This is shown clearly throughout “The Things They Carried.”

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