Deadly Perfection

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Life is full of what people call imperfections, but how truly imperfect is an imperfection? There are many common sayings that question the use of the term imperfections like, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” and “one man’s trash is another man’s treasure.” In the story, “The Birthmark,” Aylmer and Georgiana go through a rough patch in their marriage, when Aylmer thinks that Georgiana’s birthmark is an imperfection on an almost perfect face. Although Aylmer and Georgiana love each other, their relationship is destructive because of their temperament and isolation from the world. Aylmer and Georgiana are now entering an important relationship, and it’s good to understand each other’s temperament or personality to make a marriage work. John J. McKenna, a professor of English at the University of Nebraska-Omaha, discusses four different types of temperaments: Guardians, Artisans, Idealists, and Rational. These temperaments have matches, Guardian with Artisan and Idealist with Rational. Georgiana is an Idealist and Aylmer is a Rational, thus they should have a good relationship, but unfortunately their personalities conflict with each other. An Idealist is a person that, as McKenna explains, “tend, especially in at the beginning of a relationship, to front load the person with all sorts of admirable qualities that the person does not possess” (38). What McKenna is saying is that Georgiana is idolizing her husband. She takes his many failures and turns them into a positive that causes her to, as she said to her husband, “worship you more than ever” (1029). Georgiana is conveying that no matter how many times he fails, it just gives more reason for her to love him. On the other hand, Aylmer is a Rational. McKenna uses an excerp... ... middle of paper ... ...elationship makes their love suffer. Georgiana can’t be isolated from the world and maybe they are just too different to make the connection work. Aylmer and Georgiana’s relationship has the ingredients to be great because they did love each other, but when he’s concentrating on fixing her and she’s worrying about pleasing him, it destroys their love and eventually leads to her demise. Which sadly makes the common saying that “Love conquers all” an untrue statement, because it couldn’t conquer a man’s obsession with an imperfection. Works Cited: Hawthorne, Nathaniel. The Birthmark. N.d. University of Virginia Library. University of Virginia. Web. 6 June 2008. McKenna, John J. "Lessons About Pygmalion Projects And Temperament In Hawthorne's ‘The Birthmark’." Eureka Studies In Teaching Short Fiction 7.1 (2006): 36-43. Education Research Complete. Web. 21 Nov. 2013.

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