Dating Rituals in College

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Dating rituals

Dating has changed from the early 1900s. In the past, people did not have the technology available that we have in today's age but dating rituals in the modern era are highly technical. Whether it is in the past or today's ages there are six steps in the dating rituals: First is meet the person, second ask the person out, third decide where you want to go, fourth getting prepared for the date, fifth is going on the date, sixth completion of the date.

The first step in the dating ritual is meeting the person. In the college setting a student is able to meet a partner in a familiar setting. It can be easy or difficult for a college student depending on either students schedule, academic building location, ones own personal charisma on meeting people and plenty more factors. There are some students who have a significantly better opportunities such as for the Greek students to meet other Greek students at their events. Then there are ways for the non Greek members to meet.

For the Greek members it is much simpler for them to meet people because of their social events and gatherings they hold. Fraternities hold events, such as swaps with sororities. A swap is when sorority pledges meet fraternity pledges for an hour and an hour later have a bigger party where everyone mingles together. This is a way people will have a increased chance of getting to know each other before the party starts. There are other events Fraternities and Sororities hold besides Swaps such as Band parties, Mixers, and Philanthropy events to raise money for their houses, and charities such as Cancer research, children's homes, special needs and so much more.

The non Greek members of college. Often join clubs, work, or school ...

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...ted either "A - smooth; B - ok; C - pass in a crowd; D - semigoon; or E - spook." As the Damda Phi Data sorority, these women made copies of the rating list and left them around campus. The Michigan Daily reported that the lists were being used "quite extensively" by women to check the ratings of potential blind dating value (and also to gain some kind of power over the most powerful men). The concept of dating value had nothing to do with the interpersonal experience of a date - whether or not the boy (or girl, for that matter) was fun or charming or brilliant was irrelevant. Instead, the rating looked to others: " pass in a crowd" does not prefer to any relationship between the couple, but to public perceptions of success in the popularity competition. Dating a "spook" could set you back, but the C-rater would hold your place. Keep you in circulation." (Baily).

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