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Relationships can be a positive aspect in a person 's life. There are many significant attributes about relationships in the movie Rain Man by Ronald Bass that are comparable to the story Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck. Both of these stories are good examples of how relationships teach people how to be supportive and accepting. These stories also teach us about how spending time with a person brings you closer together and how over time the characters in the two stories learn the true value of friendship. It is apparent through both of these stories that a considerable part of most relationships are made up of support for one another.
Being supportive is vital in maintaining a strong relationship because support builds confidence and gives
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Charlie Babbitt figures out that his brother will never be “cured” because that is the way he really is. Charlie Babbitt expresses anger in the movie when his brother does not do things “normally” and he tells Raymond that “[He can not] tell [him] that [he is] not in there somewhere!” (Bass). What Charlie does not know is that Raymond’s autism is a part of him that he, nor anyone else, can change that and Charlie finds out that he has to accept Raymond for who he is. Charlie is put in a difficult situation where he has to learn how to accept his brother; in the story Of Mice and Men the character George is in a similar situation. George is a witty person who has to look after his thick headed friend Lennie, who gets himself into a lot of trouble. At the end of the book George accepts Lennie for who he really is and does not get angry at him or scold him about murdering Curly’s wife. After the murder Lennie asks George “[If he is] gonna leave [him]” (Steinbeck pg 103) George replies “No” (Steinbeck pg 103). George says this because he knows that Lennie has a mental disorder, and he accepts that Lennie is going to get in trouble and he finds no need to scold him or tell him he is leaving because it will not make any difference because Lennie is a troubled person. And no matter how many times George will scold Lennie or tell him to stay out of …show more content…
The protagonist in Rain Man found this out when he started spending more time with his older brother Raymond. At first Charlie Babbitt did not think of Raymond as his brother because he just found out Raymond was his brother. But over time and throughout their adventures Charlie Babbitt made a connection with Raymond. Charlie says to his brother that “when [they] started out together [Raymond] was only [his] brother in name . . . [then he] made a connection” (Bass). This tells the readers that because of all the time they were forced to be together they ended up bonding. In Of Mice and Men a comparable situation happened allowing George and Lennie to become connected. By working long hard days and going through highs and lows George and Lennie grow close towards one another. They have each other to lean on when times get tough and they also end up sharing the same goal. When they say “an’ live off the fat ta the land” (Steinbeck pg 14) they are talking about being able to buy a farm together so they can work for themselves and spend quality time together. That is why they were hesitant to allow Candy to join their dream because they would feel more accomplished achieving their dream by themselves and it would further bond their relationship. If one does not invest time in a relationship it will never
The novel, set in the 1930s, is a story of friendship of migrant workers George
The two novels, Animal Farm, written by George Orwell and The Sky So Heavy, by Claire Zorn explore the theme of oppression through characterisation. Animal Farm is a novella depicting the lead up to the Russian Revolution, with characters from the events taking part in the story as animals. In The Sky so Heavy, Finn and his peers are stranded in a nuclear winter, hopelessly trying to source food for survival. The characterisation of Napoleon in Animal Farm and Finn in The Sky So Heavy both portray similar oppression through their speech. Napoleon portrays oppression when he states, “All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others” (90), similarly to Finn; “our world was made from the dull light filtered through the gauze
Two characters to be analyzed in terms of their male relationships are George and Lennie. An article describes the friendship between men, and how most of the time it is more than just a normal friendship. The author states, “The heroic friendship was a friendship between two men that was intense on an emotional and intellectual level” (McKay). Guys have a stronger relationship than just being able to hang out and have fun. They have a bond that they are emotionally involved in, meaning they really love each other but not in anything more than friends. They also are connected on an intellectual level, which means they know everything about each other and they are able to open up whenever they need a friend. There are a lot of scenes from Of Mice and Men that show George and Lennie’s friendship. One scene is when George is telling Lennie how most people are alone trying to get through life, but they are different. They have each other. George says, “ If them other guys gets in jail they can rot for all anybody gives a damn. But not us! An' why? Because… because I got you to look after me, and you got me to look after you, and that's why. He laughed delightedly” (Steinbeck 40). This quote from Of Mice and Men shows that George and Lennie connect on an emotional and intellectual level. They both know that they have each others back for no matter what they go through
All human beings begin to develop relationships with each other because these relationships can fill particular needs. Those may be social, physical, physiological or even economic. When you analyse the dense relationship between George and his friend Lennie who is mentally challenged, you start to wonder how they still manage to stick together. George and Lennie stick together because they have a dream, a dream that they want to fulfil even if one of them messes up they still will push through. "I remember about the rabbits, George.” (Page 5)
In Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck, the need for companionship is shown throughout the book. Crooks, Curley's wife, and George and Lennie all illustrate that you need trustworthy friendships to live your life to its full potential and pursue your dreams.. That is why I believe that, had Lennie lived, he and George could have taken their companionship further and gotten the little cottage they wanted, enabling them to achieve their dream of “'[living] off the fatta the lan''” (14).
The influential British writer, Hugh Kingsmill, once stated, “Society is based on the assumption that everyone is alike and no one is alive” In his novel, The Kite Runner, Hosseini depicts a unique friendship between two boys in a quickly disappearing Afghanistan. Hosseini creates Amir, an ambitious yet selfish character in order to elaborate on the negative effects society has on an individual. After he betrays his friend Hassan, Amir is conflicted and spends the rest of his life attempting to gain redemption by saving Hassan’s son. Similarly, in Of Mice And Men, Steinbeck uses two lowly ranch workers, George and Lennie, to depict a life impacted by the other men and their surroundings. Their valuable friendship is eventually thrown away due to the pressure of society when George is forced to take Lennie’s life. Although in both The Kite Runner and Of Mice And Men, Khaled Hosseini and John Steinbeck demonstrate society’s overbearing power over the individual, Hosseini and Steinbeck use different motifs and settings to convey their ideas regarding society.
It is very apparent that each of the four characters in the two friendships feed off of each other. In Steinbeck’s novel, Of Mice and Men, George and Lennie are very different, yet they need one other. George is a very independent, loyal, and caring person who takes care of Lennie because Lennie is unable to take care of himself. Although George makes it seem like he would be better off without Lennie, George makes it clear that without him he would be better off. This is evident because of this conversation h regularly had with Lennie” I could go get a job an’
Yet what most fail to see is that Of Mice and Men portrays both aspects of human life through the mutual friendship of two uncommon men, George and Lennie, the dream they both share, and the sudden calamity that befalls them. Relationships are an important part of life. Humans need relationships because we are dependent on each other to survive. Babies need their mothers to feed and nurse them, and friends need each other to support, comfort, sympathize, and understand them. The friendship between George and Lennie outlined the core of Of Mice and Men, and although it’s sometimes idealized and exaggerated throughout the novel, there is no question of its sincerity.
When was the last time you felt certain of your impending future? For cancer survivor, Hazel, the answer is never. In The Fault in Our Stars, sixteen year old Hazel lives with cancer and attends a support group where she meets Augustus, another young cancer survivor who changes her outlook on the world forever. He takes Hazel on an adventure of love, friendship, and pain, and together they yearn to have authority over their uncontrollable fates. Isaac, a blind teenager, and Hazel’s mom also play significant roles in her life. Similarly, in Of Mice and Men, George and Lennie strengthen their friendship through love and suffering, and they learn that humans have some control over their end destination. At the ranch they work at, Lennie and George have to choose how they want their lives to turn out, which directly impacts the choices they will make regarding the future. While John Green’s The Fault in Our Stars and John Steinbeck’s Of Mice and Men both establish motifs of friendship, games, and hands, they convey different universal ideas about humanity. In particular, Green suggests that humans cannot always manipulate every situation, while Steinbeck focuses on the ideas that men often have a choice in their destinies.
J.F Clarke said that "The bravest of individuals is the one who obeys his or her conscience". This statement means that the special people, who listen to their conscience, are the bravest because it is not easy to listen and act on what your conscience tells you because many people are afraid of the consequences of doing so. In The Lord of the Flies, by William Golding, and Of Mice and Men, by John Steinbeck, the characters truly do show this trait of being brave. I agree with the statement because I know myself that it isn't easy to act on what your conscience tells you. Many times the consequences stop me and also it is very hard to base a decision on pure "instinct".
The movie of Of Mice and Men had many differences while still giving the same message that the book was portrayed to have. One of the major differences was that Candy never came into the room when Lennie and Crooks were talking to each other. This was major because Crooks never found out that the plan was true about the little house. In the book after he heard Candy talk about it he wanted to get in on the deal. Also the movie it never showed Lennie have his illusions of his Aunt Carla and the rabbits when he was waiting by the pond.
This analysis will compare and contrast the types of intelligence which the protagonists of ‘Rain Man’ and ‘A Beautiful Mind’ display. ‘Rain Man’ (1998) directed by Barry Levinson is about a selfish man, Charlie, who finds out he has an autistic older brother, Raymond. Charlie then kidnaps a willing Raymond from Walbrook Institute and slowly a relationship of love and understanding forms. ‘A Beautiful Mind’ (2001) directed by Ron Howard features mathematical genius, John Nash, who, after making a revolutionarily discovery in university, does secret cryptography work for the government. His life soon changes for the worse, with a diagnoses of schizophrenia.
George’s relationship with Lennie has made him selfless; his conversations, with and with out Lennie, are generally revolving around Lennie, although in the case of their dream-ranch George seems to find fulfilment for himself as well. Due to these altruistic tendencies that he shows throughout the novel, a danger is bestowed upon George; he tends to care for Lennie far too much, and too little for himself. In occasional moments, he escapes his sympathy and compassion for Lennie, and realises the burden that he causes. This usually results in George taking his frustration out on Lennie, which can often harm his simple mind, leaving Lennie upset and forced to confess to his own uselessness, and George feeling guilty for what he has caused. We can learn very little about George through his actual conversations, which made it necessary for Steinbeck to focus the novel on him in particular, and let the reader gain an closer insight on him through his actions. Generally, he seems to be caring, intelligent and sensible, but is greatly worn by the constant attention Lennie requires. This illustrates a major theme in Of Mice and Men, the dangers that arise when one becomes involved in a dedicated relationship.
Although it seemed like George and Lennie’s relationship was not very equitable, thorough examination of their interactions, conversations and time spent together reveal that they indeed had a true friendship. Thus, the men were always there to back each other up; they accepted one another; and George always knew the right decisions for Lennie. In conclusion, Steinbeck shows us that a true friendship can be a bit difficult at times, but in the end two can come together to make the perfect team that will always have each other for support. When the time comes for you, and you find “the perfect friend”, you should think to yourself: Would this person ever be as close to me as George and Lennie were in the book, Of Mice and Men by John
Supporting whatever it is your partner does is huge for having a healthy relationship. When your being supportive towards what it is that your partner is doing, means your making your partners happiness a priority. Supporting your partner is as simple as providing a safe places with your partner, somewhere were you both are able to be vulnerable in front of one another with no judgement. When your offer encouragement to each other its showing your partner that you want nothing but the best for them , that being in work or with schooling. You’re showing them that you care a huge amount about their future and want nothing but the best for them. Their feeling towards you will most likely grow stronger. After allowing encouragement in the relationship your partner should feel you’re ready to support him or her in anything that they do. Remember you should always be your partners biggest cheerleader. Being a good listener. “If your partner needs you to lend an ear, do it willingly. You don’t always need to come up with the solution, jut the support.” You and your partner are together in the first place because your each others biggest fans, so by showing you supportive them by being there to listen why they need it, allowing encouragement and providing a safe place to be vulnerable, will show how much you supportive one another and continue to build a healthy relationship, in my opinion.