Clarissa Pinkola Estes The Ugly Duckling

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“The Ugly Duckling” is a fairytale that almost every child in the world grows up with and almost knows by heart. A story of a unique duckling that is banished by his family because he looks different and they no longer want him. The duckling goes on a journey of realization of trying to figure out where he truly belongs and who he is. Through this banishment and exile from his family, he discovers himself and his community of beautiful swans. Never the less, the duckling gains an unexpected strength from his alienation and trauma. According to Edward Said, a professor and author, defines exile as, “… the unhealable rift forced between a human being and a native place, between the self and its true home” (Said 137). What Said explains in his work, “Reflections on Exile”, is how traumatic banishment can be in ones’ life. However, you discover yourself in the process of leaving your home behind even though that feeling of being …show more content…

Est`es’ analysis communicates that, “The duckling… when pressed into circumstances of little nurture, instinctively strives to continue no matter what” (Est`es 183). The duckling was tormented by his family and neglected by his mother, this trauma inspires him to hold on and push through no matter what. Through this exile journey, the duckling gains the strength to survive under pressure and keep moving, “… it leads eventually to a profound magnitude and clarity of psyche” (Est`es 199). Although the duckling starts his life feeling lost, his exile is in reality, is a gift, “ It removes whininess, enables acute insight, heightens intuition, grants the power of keen observation and perspective that the ‘insider’ can never achieve” (Est`es 199). Moreover, the duckling comes to terms with his traumatic experience of neglect during his journey of self- discovery and actually benefits from the

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