Individuals in society try to avoid conflict, despite knowing they cannot survive without it. Disagreements or contradictory opinions between individuals can either gradually breakdown, or unite new relations. Similar circumstances are present between the characters in the novel On Beauty written by Zadie Smith. Several characters in the novel face struggles as they learn to deal with others, themselves, and society. First of all, Britain born Howard Belsey leads a fictional war against Monty Kipps, whom he considers his lifelong professional and cultural nemesis. Next, Howard’s African-American wife, Kiki Belsey, tries to mend back her unwavering love towards her husband despite his multiple affairs. Finally, the youngest son of the Belsey …show more content…
Howard Belsey is a fifty-seven year old white man, who is always optimistic in terms of his family and professional life. Originally from London, England, Howard escapes to America as he believes that the place he was born was “full of people who tried to destroy him” (Smith 28). His liberal-atheist views always clash opinions with his long-time academic and political rival Monty Kipps, who is an extremely conservative Christian, and no less than a hypocrite. When Howard figures that the Faculty of Humanities, in the university he works at, invites Monty Kipps from England for a temporary professorship, his rage knows no bounds: “He saw it as an unforgivable betrayal on the part of the Humanities Faculty. A close personal rival invited on to campus! Who supported this? He made angry calls to colleagues, trying to uncover the Bruntus - with no success” (Smith 60). Monty Kipps and Howard Belsey have been academic rivals ever since they started their careers as professors. Though both share a deep interest in Rembrandt, their different views of the artist often clash together. Howard views art as solely hypothetical, and suggests that Rembrandt was “merely a competent artisan who painted whatever his wealth patrons requested” (Smith 155). Jealousy accounts within Howard when Kipps is able to publish an international bestseller on Rembrandt, deciphering his opinions, when he can not even finish …show more content…
Howard’s generous African-American wife, Kiki Belsey, has always lived up to her thirty-year old marriage, being as faithful as one’s wife can be. Kiki’s relation with her family, especially Howard, gradually starts to fall apart ever since Howard’s extra marital affair comes to light. Though Kiki feels the need to escape all this shock, she slowly suffers within herself: “She wished she could muster up such clarity of hate. But she could not feel fury for Howard anymore. If she was going to leave him, she should have done so in the winter. But she stayed and now summer was here” (Smith 59). Kiki faces the first shock of her life, when Howard’s confesses to his extramarital affair. In order to sustain the peaceful stability of the Belsey household, Kiki hides her feelings of frustrations and tries moves on to forgive her husband. Kiki’s second shock comes when Howard is caught with another woman, none other than their close family friend and colleague, poet Claire Malcolm. Immensely disturbed by the fact that Howards kept this affair going on with a family friend for three weeks, Kiki breakdowns: "This is real. This life. We're really here—this is really happening. Suffering is real. When you hurt people, it's real. When you fuck one of our best friends, that's a real thing and it hurts me" (Smith 394). The thought that Howard had an affair with a
Scene: Janie’s loneliness, desire for marriage and naive nature leads her to an ill-advised, and as a result brief, marriage to an older man named Logan Killicks. This demonstrates both her love longing and her lack of experience with love. Still, terrible as the marriage is, it is a learning experience.
“ It was the most beautiful and poignant love story I’ve ever read” ( Dir Darnell ). Love that is genuine is hard to come by on a daily basis, everyone is not meant to experience the marvelous wonders it has to offer. Not only is the subject matter cropped for modern day television, but the supporting characters in the novel are remade to fit Winfrey’s impression of Their Eyes Were Watching God. Males who would not perceive to be the typical sex to gossip, partake in many female characteristics in the movie. Janie’s character is broadcast to be a voice to be reckoned with in the screenplay as a vital denotation of women’s entitlement and place in this world as more than just a caregiver.
Just like Hurston’s other stories, Spunk deals with the nature of marriage and the struggle between a strong man and a weak man. The setting of the story is in a rural all-black southern town whereby the people of the town speak in Southern African American dialect. Hurston wanted the reader to understand the kind of marriages blacks have and how adultery is apparent in the marriages. The themes in Spunk reflect the lives of the people in the South at the time the short story was written. Masculinity and power are common in the short story as Zora Hurston uses different literary devices for the reader to be able to analyze these themes in the story. Spunk and Lena are having an affair and they are not afraid to parade it for the town people to see them. In addition, Lena is ready to Marry Spunk even after he kills her husband Joe.
Janie who continually finds her being defined by other people rather than by herself never feels loved, either by her parents or by anybody else. Her mother abandoned her shortly after giving birth to her. All she had was her grandmother, Nanny, who protected and looked after her when she was a child. But that was it. She was even unaware that she is black until, at age six, she saw a photograph of herself. Her Nanny who was enslaved most of her lifetime only told her that a woman can only be happy when she marries someone who can provide wealth, property, and security to his wife. Nanny knew nothing about love since she never experienced it. She regarded that matter as unnecessary for her as well as for Janie. And for that reason, when Janie was about to enter her womanhood in searching for that love, Nanny forced her to marry Mr. Logan Killicks, a much older man that can offer Janie the protection and security, plus a sixty-acre potato farm. Although Janie in her heart never approves what her Nanny forced her to do, she did it anyway. She convinced herself that by the time she became Mrs. Killick, she would get that love, which turned out to be wrong.
The relationship between Kiki Belsey and Carlene Kipps begins with the relationship of their children, a union vehemently opposed by both families, and more specifically both fathers. The two families are incompatible in almost every conceivable way. The Kipps are wealthy, conservative, and aesthetically beautiful, while the Belseys are middle-class, liberal, and plain. Despite these differences, and in direct defiance of their husbands and children, in the time of greatest need in both their lives, these two women each become exactly what the other needs, a friend.
When we feel the need to change outward appearance we need to be concerned and aware of how those changes effect the person we are within as we are about appearance. External beauty is not as attractive if the person inside is not the type of person we would want to be with. Appearance can be initially blinding and deceptive. When you being to look beyond the outer layers of appearance and into the character of the person you are relating to you can quickly find the beauty alone is not enough to sustain a meaningful relationship. Beauty can fade and appearance change as we grow older but who we are at the core should remain constant or improve with age and wisdom. Kit Reed’s story shows the high cost of how focusing only on your outer appearance to the detriment of the person you are can
People are always complaining about how they aren’t as pretty as models on billboards, or how they aren’t as thin as that other girl. Why do we do this to ourselves? It’s benefitting absolutely nobody and it just makes us feel bad about ourselves. The answer is because society has engraved in our minds that we need to be someone we’re not in order to look beautiful. Throughout time, society has shaped our attitudes about appearances, making it perfectly normal and even encouraged, to be five feet ten inches and 95 pounds. People have felt trapped by this ideal. Society has made these beauty standards unattainable, therefore making it self defeating. This is evident in A Doll’s House, where the main character, Nora, feels trapped by Torvald and society’s standard of beauty. The ideal appearance that is prevalent in society is also apparent in the novel, The Samurai’s Garden, where Sachi is embarrassed of the condition of her skin due to leprosy and the stigmas associated with the disease. The burden of having to live up to society’s standard of beauty can affect one psychologically and emotionally, as portrayed in A Doll’s House and The Samurai’s Garden.
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The beginning of Janie’s marriage to Joe shows promise and adventure, something that young Janie is quickly attracted to. She longs to get out of her loveless marriage to Logan Killicks and Joe’s big dreams captivate Janie. Once again she hopes to find the true love she’s always dreamed of. Joe and Janie’s life is first blissful. He gives her whatever she wants and after he becomes the mayor of a small African American town called Eatonville, they are the most respected couple in town. Joe uses his newfound power to control Janie. When she is asked to make a speech at a town event, she can’t even get out a word before Joe denies her the privilege. He starts making her work in the store he opens and punishes her for any mistakes she makes. He enjoys the power and respect her gets when o...
Using the murder of Dee Ann’s mother as a means to intertwine the lives of the characters together, Steve Yarbrough examines the nature of relationships in “The Rest of Her Life.” The relationships in the story take a turn after Dee Ann’s mother is killed, with characters seeking to act more on their own, creating distance between many relationships throughout the story. Independent lifestyles prevent emotional bonds that hold relationships together from forming, thus preventing the characters from maintaining healthy relationships. The dysfunctional relationship present between Dee Ann and Chuckie in “The Rest of Her Life” is the result of the characters ' desire for self-gratification.
The concept of beauty is a subject society speaks on through many channels. Social media plays a tremendous role in how society measures beauty and how to achieve these impossible standards. People from all walks of life have become obsessed with the idea of beauty and achieving the highest level it. In many cases, those who do not meet societal views of what is “beautiful” can become very resentful to these predisposed notions of beauty. David Akst in his writing “What Meets the Eye”, is bitter toward women and their ongoing obsession with beauty.
In the essay “What Meets the Eye”, Daniel Akst explains scientific facts about the beauty of men and women matters to people. He argues that attractive individuals receive attention, great social status, marries, and gets paid more on a job. One can disagree with Akst’s argument because anyone with the skills and knowledge, despite the appearance, can gain a decent relationship and can get paid well. Akst looks at beauty as if it can lead individuals to an amazing and successful life, but he is wrong. Nancy Mairs’ and Alice Walker’s views on beauty are explained internally and through self-confidence. Both women’s and Akst’s arguments on beauty share some similarities and differences in many ways, and an
...ith her charismatic brother who constantly looks out for her, supports her and believes in her when no one else does. This affects her attitude towards men positively. Years later, however, her mother’s boyfriend molests and rapes her thus changing her perspective of men or rather widening her understanding of them. She sees Mr. Freeman as a pedophile that he actually is. Nonetheless, while on the verge of adulthood, she develops curiosity towards men and at some point considers them as objects for her pleasure. She also grows to love and respect her mother’s husband to the point of trusting him while her mother is away on business.
The book starts off painting the image an Howard's mother Mariquita. She is depicted as somewhat a diamond in the rough, beautiful and one of a kind, even pointing out that she worked as a stenographer, an uncommon position to be held by women in this time period. The book goes on describing her daily life including spending much time with her friends, competing amongst each other in the latest fashions and watching the movies.
...e ability to achieve anything in life. Hopefully, readers would learn from this novel that beauty is not the most important aspect in life. Society today emphasizes the beauty of one's outer facade. The external appearance of a person is the first thing that is noticed. People should look for a person's inner beauty and love the person for the beauty inside. Beauty, a powerful aspect of life, can draw attention but at the same time it can hide things that one does not want disclosed. Beauty can be used in a variety of ways to affect one's status in culture, politics, and society. Beauty most certainly should not be used to excuse punishment for bad deeds. Beauty is associated with goodness, but that it is not always the case. This story describes how the external attractiveness of a person can influence people's behavior and can corrupt their inner beauty.