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March 31, 2012 was a day that will forever be an important day in my life. It was my freshman year of high school and for many freshman do not experience this life events at this young age. I remember it was Monday night, and usually those nights my family have Bible studies. I remember that Monday night getting a phone call from dad. My dad is a truck driver so mostly for the whole week, I do not get to see him very often. He wanted to talk to my mom, so she went to her bedroom and talk to her meanwhile my grandma, sister, cousin, and I was finishing up Bible studies. A few moments later, I just hear my mom saying “Call 911” to my dad. Then, five minutes later my aunt shows up in our door steps to take my mom somewhere. The second that my mother said “I be back” and kisses …show more content…
I have never saw my father like that every before. My father was covered with tubes and I remember the words that he told me, “Hi Stephanie look the Bulls are winning!” I did not know to cry or laugh because my dad was watching the Bulls vs Cavs game on tv. For ten minutes I did not talk to him because I was in stock because I have never have seen my strong father look so weak. Did I mention he had tubes EVERYWHERE! Then this doctor came in, his name was Dr. Young, but for me he looked very old. The irony I know! When he came in he said to my mom and I “Mr. Janser, you are a very lucky man because you just survived a heart attack.” At that moment I burst out crying. I look at the window and saw the moon and just cry to it. I felt weak, I just wanted to run out of there. I the first thoughts that it came to my head was, I almost lost my father!” Then, my mom came to my ear and said “Be strong for daddy!” At that moment, I went to my dad and said to him “I love you, go home I will be find I am here alive”. When my mom pulled me away, I pushing towards my dad because I did not wanted to leave is side again because what happen I lost him
I can still remember that small enclosed, claustrophobic room containing two armed chairs and an old, brown, paisley print couch my dad and I were sitting on when he told me. “The doctors said there was little to no chance that your mother is going to make it through this surgery.” Distressed, I didn’t know what to think; I could hardly comprehend those words. And now I was supposed to just say goodbye? As I exited that small room, my father directed me down the hospital hallway where I saw my mother in the hospital bed. She was unconscious with tubes entering her throat and nose keeping her alive. I embraced her immobile body for what felt like forever and told her “I love you” for what I believed was the last time. I thought of how horrific it was seeing my mother that way, how close we were, how my life was going to be without her, and how my little sisters were clueless about what was going on. After saying my farewells, I was brought downstairs to the hospital’s coffee shop where a million things were running
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I usually wake up at around 7:00 am. My actual alarm time is at 6:30 am but I always snooze it. In the holidays, I wake up around 12 o’ clock. My friends say that I am the laziest person in the world. The first thing I hear from my mum is, “You are late”. I will then stream downstairs for breakfast. My parents always say that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. So I try my level best not to miss it. My mum really loves cooking, so I can have different varieties of breakfast everyday. But my favourite breakfast is cereals. It will always put me in a good mood to be in school. When breakfast is finished, everything is a rollercoaster for everyone in the family including me. My parents are late for work, my brother is also late for college and I’m usually rushing for my bus. So there is no time to say goodbye to each other.
The car ride to their house was dead silent. When we had gotten to their house, they sat us down and told us the horrible news, Daddy was in the hospital. I sat there in shock for a moment to really understand what they had told me. Then when I understood what was said, my heart fell to my toes. I busted out into tears. I didn’t know what was wrong with him. I didn’t understand why he was in that place. He was fine this morning, he brought us to Nana and Poppy’s house and he was healthy. How could he be sick?? For the next few days, I wasn’t myself. The days that he was gone, I couldn’t eat or sleep. I was too worried to even go to school, but I had to go. I didn’t play with my friends on the playground, I couldn’t take naps, and I didn’t even want to color. My friends knew what was going on and they tried to help, but the only thing that could help was my Daddy being okay. While he was there, I didn’t get to go see him once. I hated not seeing my Daddy. I just wanted my best friend home with me. A few days had passed and he finally came home. I was so excited when he came home. I thought, “Finally, things can go back to normal.” I didn’t believe that anything would change. The day after he came home I overheard Mom telling Nana and Poppy what the doctor told her, “He had a mini stroke. And if doesn’t stop smoking, he wouldn’t live much
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It was around 2:00pm and it was time to open presents. I started with opening friend’s presents then I opened families. I was finally done opening all my presents. I looked around at all the people, who were looking at me and my dad was nowhere to be. That was the only present that I was looking forward too. The party ended and my dad didn’t show up, my little four years old hopes were in the ground, it was like I could feel my heart ripping appart. I looked at my mom and she mouthed I’m sorry, my faced turned rosy red and my eyes filled with tears. From that moment on my life was never the same. It was a dark cloudy day and I was going to see my dad. We were playing the game Sorry and he was winning. I was the yellow player and he was the green player, he was laughing and smiling the whole time. I wouldn’t have wanted to spend my Friday afternoon any other way. When the game was over he asked me to clean up the game while he went out to smoke a cig. When he entered the room and the game wasn’t picked up, he went crazy. His eyes seemed to turn a dark almost black color. It was like he was a completely different person when he came back