Similarities Between Miss Amelia And Cousin Lymon

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In many southern areas, family and gender roles have been clearly defined and were generally followed closely for years. Carson McCullers’ The Ballad of the Sad Café features one character, Marvin Macy, who strictly abides by the set gender roles. However, The Ballad of the Sad Café also features Miss Amelia and Cousin Lymon, who do not abide by the roles set for their genders and instead exhibit the characteristics of the gender opposite of their own. As a result, Miss Amelia is seen as a somewhat intimidating individual while Cousin Lymon is seen as the weaker of the two. Even today, men and women are expected to fulfill certain roles and are often viewed negatively if they stray from them, though many of the expectations of gender roles …show more content…

She also treats the townspeople when they’re sick and works to create her own medicine that she tests on herself to make sure it will work. She is unmarried, and her previous marriage lasted a mere ten days before she drove her husband to file for divorce. Because she and her ex-husband, Marvin Macy, were both extremely masculine characters, neither was willing to be seen as anything less than the dominant figure in the relationship. This coupled with the fact that Miss Amelia had no attraction to Macy to begin with drove their marriage to its end. Conversely, because Cousin Lymon had a more feminine personality and was smaller and more submissive than Miss Amelia, the two immediately had some sort of connection and were able to stay together for years, though they were never married. Miss Amelia’s masculinity wasn’t necessarily punished or disparaged, and she was generally liked by the townspeople because she provided them with medicine, but Cousin Lymon was regarded as a nuisance and a gossip and was only allowed to live in the town unscathed for so long because he and Miss Amelia were so close. Whereas Miss Amelia and Marvin Macy’s personalities clashed, Cousin Lymon and Miss Amelia’s personalities complemented each other well, allowing their relationship to be more …show more content…

A study conducted by Lenore Weitzman in the late 1960’s found that many children’s stories had very few female characters and when female characters were present they abided by typical gender roles. However, when books featuring female characters that stepped out of these traditional roles started being published, children were able to develop new ideas of what roles were acceptable for women to fulfill (Feely). Similarly, Carson McCullers uses Miss Amelia, Cousin Lymon, and Marvin Macy to display how those who abide by gender roles are seen by their communities as well as how those who do not are typically viewed. For example, Cousin Lymon exhibited more feminine characteristics and was generally seen as a gossip and a nuisance by the townspeople. Marvin Macy, on the other hand, was a very handsome, masculine man who was described as an “evil character” (McCullers 27) that had a horrible reputation, yet he was still adored by many women in the town. The town did not necessarily dislike Miss Amelia, but because she frequently sued people and was a large, imposing woman she was seen as somewhat

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