Women in Violent Relationships

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What is Love? Webster’s dictionary defines love as a strong, deep affection. Many of those who are or have been in love can definitely agree with that. My definition for love is all of earth’s surroundings that make one feel good or happy; to me, love is not just love towards another, but it is also love towards something beyond. Everyone knows that love is a beautiful thing to experience: it feels like all the happiness in the world is in your hands and you could never be happier. But what happens, coming from a woman’s perspective, when your husband uses that love as a weapon against you? What if he raised his hands against his woman, bruising his hands so that they started to swell up? Well, that is the case in many women’s lives around the world who are torn apart in a war between fighting for love and fighting for survival. Many people debate about whether or not love is blind; in these terrible acts of domestic strife, love is blind and blinding. Love becomes blind when people, especially in violent relationships, tend to avoid the truth.

It’s true how love can bring pleasure and bliss in anyone’s life and that it motivates people to achieve many things, but love can also blind them. Being “blind,” in this case, means that someone is unable or unwilling to perceive or understand. When a woman is brutally beaten by the husband she loves, she fails to see all the harm he has done to her physically and emotionally. Many reasons for this are probable. For one thing, she...

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