Who's To Blame

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Hercules, the strongest among men in Ancient Greece, was taken by madness set upon him by the goddess Hera. Being the wife of Zeus, she loathed Hercules, because he was the illegitimate son of Zeus and a mortal woman. This madness drove Hercules to kill all of his children and his wife Megara. (Hamilton, 96) Now isn’t that convenient? This story is proof, that throughout history, human beings have refused to take responsibility for their actions, just as they do now.
It is in the nature of humanity to place blame, whether it is called for or not. Blame is something that people usually use as an excuse for their own bad behavior.() For example, when a student in today’s schools behaves badly in class and must be reprimanded by the teacher, the parents of these misbehaving children will often come into the school and scold the teacher for doing his or her job. Parents do this because they believe by reprimanding their child, the teacher is, in a way, reprimanding their parenting. This is due to the fact that in most cases a child's behavior is a reflection of the child’s upbringing, and instead of just being embarrassed and trying a new way of handling their children, parents say the teacher was in the wrong.
These kinds of actions are similar to the acts done during witch trials throughout the centuries. A times when women, and occasionally men, were blamed for others’ misfortune through means of black magic. “Witches” were blamed for things like the death of livestock and crops, when in actuality the owners of the livestock and crops just hadn't tended to them properly. () They don’t admit this because it’s not in human nature to admit fault, even when admitting fault is what a person needs to do to achieve self improvement. Th...

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... to yourself, and thats the hardest part to recovering from drug or alcohol abuse. In fact that’s one of the hardest parts of life in general, admitting you have a problem. It hurts and it’s embarrassing but it’s one of the only ways to grow and heal. It’s like walking around on a bad ankle. It’s like taking away someone's crutch. It’s uncomfortable and it’s scary but it’s what you must do. It’s what the doctor recommends.
It’s time that everyone got rid of their crutches, of their excuses and blame. We need to fix ourselves to help the generations behind us. We need to except ourselves. For the good and the bad. It’s difficult, and we as humans want easy, but what we want isn’t always what we need. Actually, it hardly ever is. So people need to get through the discomfort and the work to feel better. To stop hating others, and to come to terms with who they are.

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