The Mother of the Boy Who Did Not Want to Grow Up
“Things do not change, we do.” -Henry David Thoreau. Change can happen in numerous ways. Whether she liked it or not. Change is a force that caused Wendy Darling, the protagonist of Peter Pan by J.M. Barrie to adjust is because of her family, including Peter Pan,Tinkerbell, the Lost Boys, Mrs. Darling and Mr. Darling, separation with them as well, and change over time by eventually growing up.
Wendy Darling, at the age of 12, lived in England with her mother, Mrs.Darling, her father, Mr. Darling and her two brothers, Michael and John. “There never was a simpler happier family until the coming of Peter Pan.” (Barrie 5; ch. 1). When Peter Pan came for Wendy, Wendy was supposed to be the new mother of Peter Pan and the Lost Boys. Together they always seemed very happy fighting against pirates, saving dear friends and having adventures. Although when Wendy finally returns to her rightful home and her parents are very happy to finally see her again after a while. Once it is official that the Lost Boys are adopted by Mrs. Darling, Mrs. Darling asks if Peter would like to be adopted by her as well. Peter firmly declines the offer. Peter then starts talking to Wendy and Mrs. Darling
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Peter could not believe so and tried convincing her that she is still the same Wendy as she was younger. “‘I am old, Peter. I am ever so much more than twenty. I grew up a long time ago’ ‘You promised not to!’ I couldn’t help it. I am a married woman now.’ ‘No, you’re not.’ ‘Yes and the little girl in the bed is my baby.’ ‘No she’s not.’” (167, ch. 17). Alas, for it did not work. She is no longer gay and innocent and heartless. The last time Wendy went to Neverland was truly the last time she could go.“As you look at Wendy you may see her hair becoming white, and her figure little again, for all this happened long ago.” (168,
Pete is a boy who lives within his own shadow. He wants to get his sister and himself out of the orphanage, a deadly place full of rascal and thieves, where survival is resolved by skills and bareknuckle bravery. Captain Hook hunts for children because he believes that the children can cure the disease. The Marauders and Captain Hook spy the streets and snatch kids, only to use them for experimentation. Gwen Darling and her siblings survived from the disease. They spend their days and nights hiding from the Marauders. However, Gwen’s sister, Joanna, was kidnapped by the
Corliss, Richard. “Peter Pan Grows Up, but Can He Still Fly?” Time Magazine. 19 May, 1997. 75-82.
Wife, we scarce thought us blest That God had lent us this. only child, But now I see this one is one too much, And that we have a curse in having her. Out on her, holding her!” This seems like a very drastic reaction but it shows how much control a father considered himself to be, and just how important he... ...
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M Barrie in 1911. Peter Pan is the protagonist in Barrie’s fiction novel. To explain Peter Pan’s life in the novel, let’s begin with the setting known as Neverland which is where Peter Pan lived. In Neverland, kids who never want to grow up live there, and Peter Pan as well as a group of kids known as the “lost boys” lived there happily. That being said, we will derive some characteristics Barrie illustrates in his original text to describe Peter Pan. Peter Pan is portrayed as a young boy, according to Barrie’s text, Peter Pan replies to Wendy’s question regarding his age as “I don’t know… I’m quite young… I ran away the day I was born” (Barrie, Chapter 3), therefore it can be assumed Peter Pan is a young boy, with no parents in Neverland. Peter’s intention is to never grow up and have fun. In Neverland, Peter is the captain of the lost boys, and they only look forward to having a great time together in the forests of Neverland. Peter’s description by Barrie implies that he is nice and an innocent young child that does not believe in aging or becoming an adult. Thus he encourages other young children to pertain a childhood perception. The author gives the audience enough detail about Peter’s character and ideology, although, the author does not mention much physical composition. This is to give the reader the liberty to picture Peter Pan’s physical persona in our imagination, therefore letting our imagination create