Stereotypes-Personal Narrative

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What’s the most common word that comes to mind in a week? Mine is sorry. Most common phrase? Always beginning in under, less than or lacking. You are underrepresented in society. You are lacking in the opportunities many other people have had. You’re less than prepared. Sorry for letting you down. But those are just words. Seeing is believing. Who do you see as you look in the mirror? Someone's loved one, someone’s support, or simply someone? Yeah, it takes one to know one and all that jazz, but if you only know one thing there aren’t many options for you to see. Adults only see one narrative, their narrative. Because they see with wool over their eyes they also behave with blinders on around children as if nothing they do could possibly have …show more content…

Domestic violence leaves high school students severely compromised both academically or socially. Their perceptions of the socially acceptable are vastly différent from the societal status quo. Seeking out a way to continue the cycle abused becomes the abuser. (Frank). Our actions up to this point have been sculpted and modeled after what we’ve been through at home. My sister-in-law, Tahnea, admitted to me growing up her relationship with her family was strained. Her mom saw through her rather than seeing her and Sam, well lets just say he would rather kick her around and berate her before actually showing any sort of decency. In concurrence, Tahnea’s academic performance dropped. Prior to Sam, she held straight A’s. After his introduction, her mindstate shifted as did her faith in people, especially …show more content…

Unreliable. Unhinged. Hostile living environments provoke hostile behavior. Ever meet that one flaky parent? I like to call them ten percent parents because the level of commitment given is ten percent or less. Don’t get me wrong, this is not some whiny tale coming at my occasionally absentee father, in fact, it has proven that marital status holds little to no effect on children and young adults; family conflict, however, does (Armbruster). Family conflict as I know it stems from a lack of commitment, broken promises, and false hope. No official marital commitment leaves good ole dad free to come and go as he pleases, forcing mom to double down and be enough for the both of them. His wishy washy mood disrupts our natural flow pressuring us to change to accommodate his whim. Such whims often leave us high and dry‒ all risk, little reward creating an unstable home environment. Left to their own vices in risky housing, children often grow into depressed adults

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