Self Control In The Dinner Party By Mona Gardner

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“The Dinner Party,” by Mona Gardner, is a short story about a banquet hosted by a colonial official and his wife in India. In this story, a young girl and a colonel conflict about how women do not have as much nerve control as men. While this argument is clashing, an American scientist notices a strange expression from the hostess. He realizes that there is a cobra in the room when the boy that the hostess summoned puts a bowl of milk outside. The American scientist quickly comes up with a strategy to warn others, but not to frighten them. Everyone listens to the scientist, and the cobra leaves the room. Gardner uses two main characters to also reveal a message in her story, which is that women do have self control. One of the

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