Becoming A Woman By Jenny Finney Boylan

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Throughout reading this novel, my thought on transgender and transsexual individuals was pretty set and stone. For example, I knew from reading the textbook that a transgender is a person that is born—in Jenny’s case—a male, but was psychologically and emotionally born a female. However, Jenny took things one-step further and became a transsexual, which is an individual that underwent surgery to obtain the genitals that match the psychological and emotional gender within, which in her case was a female. Therefore, Jenny Finney Boylan would be considered a transsexual female. What I did not know prior to reading this book is how tedious the process is to make a sex change. To be honest I never thought about the process a transsexual needed to go through to become one’s self, I did not think about the many steps taken to obtain the voice, or look of a female that Jenny was striving for. I also did not think about the surgery, and how scary that type of surgery could actually be. For example, on page 124 Jennifer is discussing the process of transition with her psychologist, Dr. Strange. On this page Dr. Strange is beginning to inform Jenny, and essentially myself, on how to begin the transition of becoming a female. First Dr. Strange was listing off the effects the hormones will have on Jenny’s body, and I first they made sense to me; softer skin, fluffier hair, but I never knew the physical changes hormones could have on someone, especially a man. For instance, I learned that there is such a thing called “fat migration.” This is when the fat on previous parts of your body migrates to another location. I learned from this novel that fat migration is a result of hormones, and since Jenny was once a man, her face would become less r... ... middle of paper ... ... Patrick were very young. In the last section of the novel they were only six and eight years old. Aside from their age, they knew their “Maddy” had changed, but they did not care, they still loved her because she was still herself. The most amazing part of the novel was the scene where Jennifer and her family were driving through Boston looking for the magic shop. Jennifer and Grace were reassuring the boys that being transsexual is not a disease, and in this discussion Jennifer apologized for leaving them without a dad, and Luke replies with such certainty that he does not mind about growing up without a father, because he likes “Maddy” this way, as a woman and not a man (pg. 262). This is such a valuable lesson to take from She’s Not There; although not everyone will be accepting (Jenny’s sister), nothing matters as long as your children and partner accept you.

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