Observing the Butterflies in the Stomach

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Every day people easily decide what to choose from numerous options, but they carefully consider when they face with choices involving their future. Because the outcome of a life decision affects one’s life greatly, people become anxious about failure or making a wrong decision. Anxiety causes confusion and impatience, and anxiety may actually lead them to choose a wrong decision ironically. Therefore, people try to make decisions by evading anxiety. Although people believe that anxiety directly interfere with their decision making, they should not avoid provoking it because analyzing anxiety will grant them a meaningful consequence.
In “Anxiety: Challenge by Another Name”, James Lincoln Collier claims that anxiety is another name for challenge and presents his personal experiences and rules to support this. The first rule is “do what makes you anxious; don’t do what makes you depressed” (Collier). When he was approaching to graduate in college, he started to consider about being a writer. Anxiety of failure or making the wrong decision arose in his mind; he was scared whether he would be able to live by writing or not. However, depression appeared in his mind each time he thought about giving up the idea of being a writer because it was a desire from deep inside his mind. He realized that people confront anxiety when they passionately desire something. The second rule is “you’ll never eliminate anxiety by avoiding the things that caused it” (Collier). After the author started his career as a writer, he had to meet famous people frequently. He was very anxious before each interview with the famous people. However, his anxiety of meeting them has diminished eventually; his repetition of provoking anxiety had given him confidence ...

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... wanted to be prepared by obtaining confidence. Therefore, I elected to go through anxiety of changing major. Through this process of overcoming anxiety, I have found my true desire and acquire confidence to pursue it.
In conclusion, anxiety can be a stepping-stone to true happiness. People encounter with anxiety in every decision making, and they seek to make a right decision by evading it. However, anxiety should be taken into account for decision making because it helps to analyze what they actually want to do. Moreover, confronting anxiety would lead them to acquire confidence, and it would help them to make right decisions in future. As James Lincoln Collier claims, anxiety can be challenge in another name.

Works Cited
Rosa, Alfred F., and Paul A. Eschholz. Models for writers : short essays for composition. Boston Mass: Bedford/St. Martin's, 2012. Print.

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