Examples Of Patriarchy In The Great Gatsby

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“Fortunate in living in a day when practically every restraint is removed that could repress a girl’s happy spirit or handicap her progress,” said by Nellie Ross in Motherhood True Mission Of Woman, Says Nellie Ross. At the beginning of the 1920’s, it's safe to say that patriarchy was carried over from the Victorian time period, and what one would say was a social norm. Social norms in this decade were very stereotypical, and some can argue sexiest. Men were the ones to make money, and women were the ones to stay at home, and do all the housework that needed to be done. If women didn't conform to these norms they we're judged, or an outcast. Being married in the 1920’s, was a pretty high standard, that most people tried to follow. Everyone …show more content…

Many people would go to Gatsby’s parties to have a good time, and this is where the cheating would take place because people were under the influence and wanted to live life to the fullest; even though this isn’t the right way to do it. After Gatsby’s party many people were fighting because their significant other had found out about what they had done at the party, or what they were doing. Wilson and Myrtle’s marriage started to fail once Wilson found out that Myrtle was cheating on him with Tom Buchanan. “Wilson? He thinks she goes to see her sister in New York.”(Fitzgerald 26) This is said by Tom and it shows the readers that when the spouses were cheating they were very sneaky about what they were doing. Tom and Daisy are also another couple that both cheat on each other, throughout The Great Gatsby. Tom has been cheating on Daisy throughout their marriage with Myrtle, which is Wilson’s wife. Tom is very rude to Daisy during the beginning of this book, and doesn’t seem to show too much affection towards her. Daisy and Gatsby meetup again, and try to rekindle their love that they used to have before he went to war. “Gatsby doesn’t want her to know. You’re just supposed to invite her over for tea” (Fitzgerald 79). Gatsby was afraid of being denied, so he wouldn’t bluntly ask Daisy to meetup with him again. Daisy cheated on Tom because even though, as we were told, she and Gatsby weren’t sleeping together, though some could inquire they were, it is still cheating because she is married to Tom. Tom and Myrtle also have something going on. This is causing Myrtle to cheat on her husband when he husband has done nothing wrong, and has stayed loyal to Myrtle. In The Great Gatsby Fitzgerald shows how marriages started to decline because of how reckless people were living, and how they always had the “I don’t care”

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