The Uncertainty Reduction Theory

When witnessing strangers meeting for the first time, it becomes quickly obvious that these individuals are uncomfortable with each other, and begin to go through processes to ease this discomfort. This process is attributed to the Uncertainty Reduction Theory, which states that uncertainty is a negative experience that requires elimination in order for relationships to continue and grow (Theiss & Solomon). The reason why there is such a fight against uncertainty is because of the emotional toll that it takes upon individuals. Uncertainty has been linked to negative emotions, including anxiety, and can cause difficulty in the adaptation to new environments and events (Gilbert, 2005). It can be therefore assumed that completely eradicating

There is practically no verbal communication between the two, as Carl continuously ignores Pete’s attempts at talking, which increases Pete’s uncertainty about the friendship. This also causes Pete to actively seek information as to why Carl is behaving the way that he is. Pete’s active tactics are showcased in the scene where he bursts into Carl’s apartment, angry over Carl having missed his engagement dinner, only to find his friend on his couch watching television. The reason Pete is able to easily confront Carl about his behavior is because studies have shown that acquaintances and friends are more likely to engage in direct communication when uncertainty is high (Sodetani, L., & Gudykunst). In this scene, Pete interactively informs Carl of the relational uncertainty he is feeling, particularly his doubts about Carl’s commitment to their relationship. During the scene in which Pete confronts Carl he says, “…She doesn 't like my best friend. And I keep trying to think of reasons why she should, but you know what? I can 't think any” (IMBD). At this point Pete is discussing how there is relational uncertainty also pertaining to Pete’s fiancée, who, because of having such high levels of uncertainty about Carl due to his reclusive nature, does not like him. This correlates to the seventh axiom which states that the higher the uncertainty levels, the liking of an individual will be decreased. Carl’s avoidance is causing Pete and his fiancé to move into the exit phase of the relationship, and neither is sure whether to even bother with Carl at that moment. The disintegration of these relationships, which should be important to Carl, is occurring from lack of communication and a lack of general knowledge