Spanking: Parents Must Decide

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Have you ever been spanked? Maybe smacked? We all have our own stories of how our parents disciplined us, we take them as funny stories and even joke about them. If you were born in the 90s, 80s, 70s, 60s, you already know what I’m talking about and I bet many stories already ran through your mind right now. But as we grew up and time passed by, there has been this dilemma about this method of parenting. [2] “Parents feel mixed-up and uncomfortable about disciplining their children”. Few parents in modern times do not trust this kind of act of physical punishment at home and they think that is detrimental for kids. Therefore, a good amount of parents are trying to make the government restrict the parents who spank from doing so.

[2] By the 1970s, a number of states had abolished the use of corporal punishment in school. In the 1980s, anti-spanking advocates began pushing localities and states to make the corporal punishment of children by their parents illegal, as Sweden had done in 1979. Many feminist activists saw protecting children’s physical rights as a natural extension of the laws protecting women from spousal abuse.

[1] In 2012, according to a nationally representative survey, 77 percent of men, and 65 percent of women 18 to 65 years old agreed that a child sometimes needs a “good hard spanking.” This proportion has declined modestly since 1986 among women, while approval among males, after declining into the early 1990s, remained steady since then. “

First of all, what is spanking? According to The Free Dictionary by Farlex, spanking is the act of “slapping the buttocks with a flat object or with the open hand, as for punishment.”. Of course, depending of which country you came from or which one you were born, pun...

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...in the most thought way when they are adults, when they could have learned it earlier. “Too many of today's children have straight teeth and crooked morals." – Unknown

Works Cited

[1] Child Trends. (2013). Attitudes toward spanking. Bethesda, MD. April 2013

[2] DILLER, LAWRENCE. "The Truth About Spanking." National Review 60.7 (2008): 42-44. Academic Search Complete. Web. 29 Nov. 2013.

[3] Lansford, Jennifer E. "The Special Problem of Cultural Differences in Effects of Corporal Punishment." Law & Contemporary Problems 73.2 (2010): 89-106. Academic Search Complete. Web. 29 Nov. 2013.

[4] Park, Alice. "The Long-Term Effects of Spanking." Time 175.17 (2010): 51. Academic Search Complete. Web. 29 Nov. 2013.

[5] Unknown. "Quote: Too Many of Today's Children Have Straight Teeth and Crooked Morals." Board of Wisdom. N.p., Winter 2008. Web. 01 Dec. 2013.

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