The Persuasive Essay: Do People Change?

There is one undeniable truth that sometimes we wish it is not true is that PEOPLE CHANGE. Of course, it depends whether it is positive or negative changes nevertheless, it happens. For someone that is in love they would wish that their loved ones would never change, and for some people who were in a long-term relationship secretly wish that their significant other DO change.

When I was single, there were times when I was skeptical about marriage. People change all the time, even our body is constantly changing. Every second our cells are dead and replaced by a new one.

So how come we expect that marriage could last? We can only hope for the best, that both party changes in a certain limited and positive way that somehow still manage to revolve around each other. I thought

I have been experiencing many different kinds of love (more like transformation) myself, I thought it was foolish to wish for a long and lasting relationship.

When I first loved, it was so exciting. Everything was a new thing, every feeling was heightened, every emotion was an adventure. The beat of his heart was a song, every part of him that I discovered was a treasure. I thought I will never love anyone else ever again especially when it ended. First love taught me, the bittersweet of relationship.

And then the second love, it feels different but it was love. Everything was slower but deeper. We were more mature than when we were before yet we still have the gangly youth, therefore, mistakes were understandable. When it ended, I was wiser not to think that I would not love again.

Then the third love. I wasn’t convinced that it was love for quite some time. Everything felt too predictable because I have learned a lot from my first and second love. It was like a game that people play, where every move had been thoroughly analyzed. There were just no spontaneous moves that we used to do when we were young. Until the day we made the wrong