Teen Dating Violence

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Many people confuse love and infatuation. Infatuation is foolish or all-absorbing passion. Those who abuse others in relationships do not know love but know infatuation. Some can learn to love and learn that their obsession or desire to control their partner is wrong, however not all victims are that lucky. Teen dating violence is a wrong that needs to be righted. The only way to do this is to provide a background, a way to help those who have suffered, and raise awareness to help detect, stop, and prevent.
Dating violence is abuse against one or both persons in a relationship. This is not limited to only physical abuse. Psychological, emotional, and sexual abuse all fall under the spectrum of dating violence (CDC). Dating violence among teens is on the rise and is even prevalent in middle school. Teen dating violence often goes unrecognized since many are unaware it starts so young. The physical, emotional, sexual, psychological abuse and even stalking in a relationship is a problem and not something that happens to everyone.
Surveys show that 9.4 percent of high school students report being hit, slapped, or physically hurt (CDC). Nearly 1.5 million high school students experience physical abuse from a dating partner in a single year. The sexual, emotional, and verbal abuse from a letter surpasses other types of youth violence (Love is Respect). Dating is not definite the same among all ages; however, 72 percent of 8th and 9th graders are dating. Nearly 25 percent of 14 to 17 years old surveyed know at least one student who was a victim of dating violence (The Clothesline Project).
Physical abuse is the most known about type of teen dating violence. Even if the person is slapped, hit, or attacked once it is still ...

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...ne in hand to call for help, create a code amongst your friends so if you’re with your partner you can ask for help without actually saying it.
If you’re breaking up with someone that goes to the same school as you, you can get help from the school staff such as guidance counselors, teacher, school nurse and principle. They could also change your class schedule or even transfer to another school if it goes to that extreme. You should try to avoid walking or driving alone and be smart about what your posting online keep your settings private.
“Leaving an abusive relationship can be one of the hardest things a person does. But even after your ex is out of your life, sometimes the emotional and mental effects from experiencing abuse can linger on. You may experience feelings of depression, guilt, anger, loss and even symptoms of posttraumatic stress disorder” (Why).

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