Summary Of Bonnie Rough's Autobiography Carrier '

When considering pregnancy, as a parent genetics can play a significant role in the decision making process. In Bonnie Rough’s 2010 autobiography Carrier, we are introduced to the numerous issues surrounding this couple’s struggle to move forward with a difficult pregnancy. We learn that biological traits can be the deciding factor for many parents when contemplating the ultimate decision of giving birth to a child with potential genetic defects. Whether medically or morally, the nature of terminating a pregnancy can be an emotionally painful decision with life long consequences. Throughout the book, Bonnie and her husband Dan share their personal journey into their thoughts and struggles about the difficulty of starting a family.

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Having to start the same emotional process over again, the Rough’s decided to test their luck and try for another healthy child. Early on into her second pregnancy Bonnie learned that she was carrying a baby boy, which ultimately forced her to debate the serious predicament that presented her family.

Given the facts provided by her medical team, coupled with her detailed research, Bonnie was well aware that the odds of giving birth to a healthy boy was approximately 50%. As a coping mechanism, Bonnie and Dan had discussed at great length what they would do in the event of having a boy with HED.

With advanced medical testing available, Bonnie and Dan had the option to learn whether their child was affected with HED. However if the test were positive one of the options available is terminating the pregnancy. Morally, Bonnie wrestled with this option as she so desperately wanted another baby and felt tremendous guilt for being responsible for being the carrier. After witnessing the on going struggles her brother faced and understanding what her Grandpa Earl endured, Bonnie and Dan were reluctant to bring a child into their family that would face the same daily challenges and suffering brought on by